Hey hey everyone! I’m Rafa, a 14 yo bi guy who wonders how the hell he got this far. I dig science, engineering, history, video games, and robotics. I’m pretty bad at convos, and I don’t watch too much tv or movies. My truscum opinions are based on biology. Nb has no biological basis, but I’ll respect the pronouns if you aren’t a dick about them. Bi=pan, he/him lesbians make no sense, and other things in the vein.
(DM or comment for image description) This acc is a huuugggeee part of the reason I'm moving away from tru v cute discourse. I consider myself a very lucky trans person. I've never been homeless, I started hormones at a young age, I have accepting friends and family, I'm a white transmasc person so my statistical risk of being murdered is far less than trans woc. Bc of how lucky I am, I had the luxury of focusing on dysphoria discourse. Not just tucute/transmedic discourse. This applies for when I was a truscum too. If I hadn't started to meet trans ppl with less fortunate experiences than me and heard their stories, I probably would be far less focused on real trans issues. So thanks to @translivesareimportant for helping put things into perspective to me.
This is me. It’s big mood. Sorry I haven’t been posting, I just got out of a unhealthy relationship and I’m having lots of issues because of it. • You all are amazing and valid and thanks for being you
4 weeks post op today (technically on the 21 but whatever. 4 mondays ago to be correct)! My nips still have stitches in them, I'm a bit swollen on the left side still (read: side without tattoos), but I am so in love with oh my body now. I love my chest. 😭 I am my own #mcm now! #goodvibestribe#unapologeticallypoud#unaplogeticallyme#trans#transgender#selfmade#selfmademan#selflove#positvevibes#transguy#ransmn#vitamint#testoterone#lgbtpride#lgbt#bisexual#transvisibility#leolivingloud#ftm#femaletomale#transisbeautiful#topsurgery#postop#day28#drdavidwilliamson
Spent the day crying with @deniiizchucker because of how much love we have for eachother and our chosen family. In a few weeks @poiboyy and @laelizarraras are going to be moving back to Hawaii, in the next few years I imagine @deniiizchucker will go back to the East Coast too. All I've ever wanted was a family. My whole life, I've poured my heart out and opened myself up to show my wounds. In Hopes that 1 day I would find a family to love and protect me as fiercely as I love and protect everyone else. I always thought this would look like building roots together, making a home and growing together as a unit, but as it turns out the universe has different plans for us. Over the past 5 years these 3 have seen me through so much. So many broken hearts. So many times Malu said "I told you that you shouldn't have trusted them" with all his Taurus sass and defensiveness. Thank you 3 for loving me, when others never saw my value. Thank you for holding me, and nurturing me, when others told me I was too much. Thank you for growing with me, for building with me.. You will always be my chosen family, no matter how far away we are from eachother. 😫
Life is hard, every single day is a nightmare, you can't escape from. 2013-18 have been the worst time of my life, i have been through so much, i had a feeling about happiness was something you fake, so I fake it to I make it, but I never make it. Then a day I realized that life is what you do it to, when you smile to world how do you feel? In pain? Unhappy? Or happy? Better? I feel better when I smile, sometimes I fake it but I try to smile to the world, cuz when I cry I feel bad, when I just stop thinking and smile, don't care about the world, just smile, there is something in me who actually feel better? Or even good? Those moments are the best. So the point of all this is I want you to stop thinking and smile because of no reason, sometimes it's the best you can do. And do not tell me that I don't know about pain cuz I know pain, but I also know that sitting and cry doesn't help you. Yes of course I cry every one cry sometimes and that's okay, I'm just saying try to smile you don't always need a reason to smile. -Matias Nielsen #smile#ftm#trans#hard#hardtime#help#trytosmile#lgbt#dream
April 26 is Lesbian Visibility Day! Lesbians of the world, we love you! We are especially grateful for butch lesbians, trans lesbians, disabled lesbians, lesbians of colour, ace lesbians, and all other lesbians whose identities are often silenced, even in the queer community.