#sallycatsguidetopda#pathologicaldemandavoidance#pda#autism My “obsession” with certain characters and real life people is very much then likely a part of my PDA and therefore part of who I am. I need people to be strong in their boundaries if I unintentionally cross personal lines without realising. I get excitable and can be full on when I get into something or someone. If I’m ignored, punished or treated badly for being #autistic - ie being me, then I withdraw, isolate myself and find it hard to trust those people again, although in the past I would’ve been forgiving but then not learn the lesson of who I can be myself with! Now i’m learning I can be me and be discerning, that I forgive without letting people back in to my life and that nothing anyone does to me is about me, its about them and how they are. And to no longer be attracted to the kind of people who hurt me for being me. I choose to be where the love is, where I’m celebrated, instead of tolerated, because I’m learning to love and accept myself unconditionally. #thisisme
When you're single, people ask about a boyfriend or girlfriend. When you have a fiancé, they ask about a wedding. When you get married, they ask when will you have children? When you have one, they ask when is the little brother or sister coming? When you have another one they ask, why are you having all these children? if you don’t have any children they why not !! When you get divorced, they ask why? If you don't move on, they tell you you should. If you have moved on, they ask why so quickly? If your overweight , when are you going to lose weight ? When you’ve lost weight! When are you going to stop , you’ve lost too much you need to put some back on !! 😡People will never stop asking, talking and telling you what you should do. So if you're proud of who you are and you don't care what people think about you and your life, put this on your wall if you want with a picture of yourself because it's your life and you get to decide how to live it. 💯🙌🏻😘 #positivevibes#thisisme#livelife#mylife#mychoices#movingonwithmylife#howiwant
Had to happen!! My #truecancerbodies t-shirt by @neonmarl and @truecancerbodies for #wednesdaywewear hosted by @mrskmeaks and @_tryingtobeamum_ This is my cancer body (Not feeling It's best today). I haven't got many scars, a couple small ones on my arms and bigger one on my leg. I've got the massive chemo curls, the eye sensitivity to sun (hence the squinting), I'm gradually getting my waist back and my jaw line after zoladex injections for fertility preservation completely changed my body shape. My skin is awful, use to be my best feature soft like a babies bum but not anymore but #thisisme#thisiscancer Most of my changes are internal, cardiovascular, blood cells, psychological, nerve and joints, fatigue. As a society we need to change our beliefs on what people with an illness or disability look like because so many don't show huge external signs. So if you feel yourself maybe judging someone or something you see just stop for a moment and think that maybe theirs just isn't as visible as others 💚 I've teamed my t-shirt with my new @hm lounge trousers in khaki which are super soft and comfy, great #mum wear when not feeling 100% but still need to be going out the house ready 😁
[ the greatest showman ] you can fight me on this but the greatest showman is still one of the most visually stunning movies with an amAziNG soundtrack that will be overplayed but is still so god damn perfect !! ~ also, once i finish this theme i was thinking of making this account both a scene edit & graphic account so that when i’m not inspired to make any graphics i can just post a scene with a pretty filter lmao,,,i’ve gotten lazy now that i am an adult haha ~ [ #thegreatestshowman#multifandom#hughjackman#zacefron#zendaya#thisisme ]
Double tap if you know what it feels like cooking dinner while holding a two year old , and wondering if you can go one more day using dry shampoo instead of actual shampoo 😂 - - |Raw Motherhood| ~ Motherhood ain’t easy, it’s raw, real and hard! It’s beyond the pretty pictures, the perfect home, always having all our shit together and blissful moments. We are a bunch of SA moms who have gotten together to celebrate our motherhood, raw, exposed and perfectly - imperfect! Join us with your uncensored, imperfect mommy moments using the hashtag #rawmotherhoodphotoloop Next up in our photo loop is @modestmommy22 Tag your mama tribe so they can join in too!
|Raw Motherhood| . Motherhood ain’t easy; it’s raw, real and hard! It’s beyond the pretty pictures, the perfect home, always having all our shhhh...tuff together and blissful moments. We are a bunch of SA moms who have gotten together to celebrate our motherhood, raw, exposed and perfectly imperfect! . In this gorgeous real life mama’s life, my kids were playing by themselves in their room. Till Alexander knocked his head, and I walked into this. . Gone is the clean room. And all our neatly folded and packed away blankets and duvets. Because, well... Raw Motherhood means celebrating WITH your kids when they built their own super-secret fort. . Join us with your uncensored, imperfect mommy moments using the hashtag #rawmotherhoodphotoloop Next up in our photo loop is @raising.k.squared Tag your mama tribe so they can join in too!
I am 100% an empath... it’s beautiful but hard sometimes because I feel people’s energy deeply so if someone is negative or rude I feel it. However, if someone is positive and radiates at a high volume, I can radiate very highly as well. I am very sensitive to feelings and like helping people. Peoples energies affect empaths but we are able to help change the world by empathizing and knowing how to relate in every situation and we have a keen sense of awareness. Ever since I was a kid my empathy is so strong that I can often times pin point trauma people have gone through or understand why people do what they do without having been told. Later to find out I was right. This is why literally every person can experience something completely different with me as I am a reflection of who I’m around. #empath#empaths#thisisme