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She might instead, in another mood, have said something like the following in response to her husband’s daydream: “The person fantasising of Antonella just now is the same person I married and the same little boy who stares out from that picture on top of our chest of drawers. It’s him I love and refuse to think badly of, however much his thoughts may sometimes disturb me. You’re my best friend and I want to know and come to terms with your mind in all its weird byways. I will never be able to be and do everything you want, nor vice versa, but I’d like to think we can be the sort of people who will dare to tell each other who we really are. The alternative is silence and lies, which are the real enemies of love.” - Alain de Botton  #schooloflife #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove
MINI BOOK REVIEW 15 Book Title: The Course of Love Author: Alain de Botton Rating: 4.5 / 5 -- As per the title, the book takes you through the course of love - the beginnings, arguments in the middle, the impact of changes as people grow, and all the little moments in between. Practical, grounding and comforting, The Course of Love eloquently captures our feelings during the different phases of love. ❤️ Alain de Botton’s articulation and philosophy shared in the book is relevant to everyone who loves. This novel is definitely one worth re-reading, with many timeless words of wisdom that can be referenced back to.
왜 나는 너를 사랑하는가의 저자 알랭 드 보통의 또 다른 작품인 '낭만적 연애와 그 후의 일상' 개인적으로 에세이와 소설이 적절히 섞인 알랭 드 보통 특유의 스타일이 너무 좋아하는데, 이 책을 읽으면서 마음이 아프기도 한 책이었다.  주인공인 라비와 커스틴이 만나 연애를 시작하게 되고, 결혼을 해 아이를 낳고 또 뜨거웠던 둘의 사랑이 점차 식어가고 투닥거리고 외도를 하는 등의 평소 행복한 이미지를 가진 결혼의 또 다른 이면들을 현실적으로 담은 내용이다.  내가 생각하는 이 책이 말하는 점을 한마디로 요약해보자면, '실제 사랑은 우리가 드라마나 영화 등에서 보는 것처럼 거창하지않고, 완벽하지 않다' 라는 것 같다. 상대방에게 기대를 가지는 것이 아니라 서로가 불완벽함을 인정하고 서로의 부족하고, 다른 점을 받아들이는 것이 진정한 사랑을 할 준비를 하는 것 이라고  말하는 책.  연애나 결혼을 꿈꾸는 사람이라면 언젠가 꼭 한번은 완독하길 바라는 책. . . . #알랭드보통 #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove
只要肉眼幾乎看不到的一滴就夠了,Oxytocin. 天旋地轉的起始點。神經生理學/神經內分泌的學術交流。  #oxytocin #neurohormone #love #thecourseoflove #愛的進化論 #neurophysiology #hormones
It’s profoundly counter-intuitive for us to think of ourselves as mad. We seem so normal and mostly so good – to ourselves. It’s everyone else who is out of step… And yet maturity begins with the capacity to sense and, in good time and without defensiveness, admit to our own craziness. If we are not regularly deeply embarrassed by who we are, the journey to self-knowledge hasn’t begun. Alain de Botton, The Course of Love . . . #portraitpainting #pennsylvaniaartist #paartist #heatherfoust #truthbomb #artistsoninstagram #artistsofinstagram #watercolor #journey #profound #practice #everyday #inspire #inspired #inspiration #motivation #create #createeveryday #maturity #crazy #love #thecourseoflove #painting #feelingmyself
. کتابِ "سیر عشق " چیزی بیش از یک رمان داستانی یا شرح رابطه‌ای بین دو نفر است، این کتاب بیش از هر چیز بررسی اتفاقاتی ا‌ست که در طول زندگی و فراز و نشیب‌هایش برای یک رابطه و زوجِ درگیر در آن می‌افتد. همان‌گونه که در پشت جلد کتاب آمده است: «سیر عشق داستان یک ازدواج است، از نخستین لحظات شورانگیز گرفته تا لذت‌ها و هراس‌های تعهد راستین و مشکلات عمیقی که آرام آرام در زندگی مشترک سر بر می‌آورند. داستان روابط امروزی است و شیوه بقای این روابط. این داستان بازگشت دلپذیر آلن دو باتن - نويسنده ى كتاب - است به رمان». . A Persian Translation of: “ THE COURSE OF LOVE “ By: Alain De Botton  #life #love #lovestory #thecourseoflove #switzerland #alaindebotton #handcrafted #iranian #art #decor #home #book #bookstore #bookboutique #plusbook #كتاب #داستان #سير_عشق #آلن_دوباتن #كتابفروشى #كتاب_براى_همه #كتابفروشى_من #پلاس_بوك
사랑을 유발했던 신비한 열정으로부터 눈을 돌릴 때 사랑이 지속될 수 있고, 유효한 관계를 위해서는 그 관계에 처음 빠져들게 한 감정들을 포기할 필요가 있다. 사랑은 열정이라기보다 기술이다. 너와 나의 멋진 세상을 위해 🙏 #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #알랭드보통 #thecourseoflove #alaindebotton #일상스타그램 #북스타그램 #책스타그램 #독서 #daily #bookstagram #book #reading #bookish #philosophy
얼른 자야하는데 나만 잼있오...? #알랭드보통 #thecourseoflove
낭만적 연애와 그 후의 일상 (The Course Of Love)이라니 제목부터 알랭 드 보통답다. 처음 사랑을 시작할 땐 자신을 변화시켜 상대방의  마음에 드는 존재가 되기위해 노력하다가 점점 시간이 지나면 그 마음을 상대방에게 옮겨간다. 내가 바라는 이상형의 모습을 그려놓고 거기에 맞춰주길 바란다. 분명 처음 사랑을 시작할 땐 그냥 그 존재자체로도 너무나 좋았지 않나? 낭만적 연애 후 설령 헤어진다하더라도 서로에게 또 다른 새로운 사랑을 찾을 길이 열린것이니 적당히 슬퍼하고 다시 온전히 누군가를 수용할 마음을 열어두자. 모두 성숙해지는 과정이자 그것 또한 너를 넘어선 나란 존재에 대한 사랑의 연장선이니. 서로의 일상을 존중하고 새로운 일상을 맞이하기.  ㅠㅠ급하게쓰느라 횡설수설. 빨리자자!! . .  #경험수집잡화점#필사모임#독서#북스타그램#퇴사준비생의도쿄#낭만적연애와그후의일상#알랭드보통#thecourseoflove#왼손필사모임만들까#왼손글씨
“Insecurity is a sign of well being. It means we haven’t allowed ourselves to take other people for granted, that we remain realistic enough to see that things could genuinely turn out badly...” . . . #photography #naturephotography #instagram #bird #photooftheday #splendid_shotz #sonyimages #lake #liqeniartificial #visittirana #splendid_earth #sonya6000 #amateurphotography  #alaindebotton #quotes #thecourseoflove #wanderlust #lovequotes #travel #natgeo #pigeons #birdsofinstagram
#repost @fincankoleksiyoncusu (@get_repost) ・・・ ‘Doğru insan diye bir şey yoktur. Biraz yakından bakınca herkes biraz sorunludur.’ ‘Ancak sevmeye hazır olunca ve sevilmeye bu kadar kafayı takmamızın doğallıktan uzak ve tehlikeli olduğunu fark edince evlenmemiz gerekir.’ #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #aşkdersleri
Alain de Botton’s novel, ‘The Course of Love’ is an accurate, honest and compassionate love story that is so true to my own experiences of love and marriage. There are roses and passion, but also nappy changing, compromise and human frailty. Recommended reading for couples and singles.  #bookstagram #library #reading #booklover #bibliophile #bookstagrammer #books #reading #library #readreadread #literature #bookshelf #reader #bookish #goodreads #kindle #kindleoasis #libro #livre #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #marriage
#낭만적연애와그후의일상 📖 뚜렷한 파국이나 큰 행복없이 수십년동안 지속되는 관계가 사랑의 진척에 관한 이야기로 마땅히 대접받지 못하고 여전히 러브스토리 밖에 머무는 것은 흥미롭고도 걱정스러운 일이다. ㅡ 커피랑 술안되요,, 들어놓고 자연스럽게 또 그란데 시켰던 어느날. 사진보니 정말 한사발이구나....
소중한 사람에게 받은 책이라,  소중하게 읽고 또 좋은 곳에 쓰고 싶어서 책 읽고 기부하는 활동에 참여하게 되었다. 좀 더 현명하게 사랑해서 소중한 사람에게 상처주지않고. 더 많이 감싸안아주고 서로 아껴주는 시간이 가득해지길!❤️ @wondin_91 . . #sns는인생의낭비가아닐수있다  #책읽어서남주기1903 (@checknam_8 ) 첫 번째 참여⭐️ #서울대학교어린이병원  #남주는형제  #기부 #책 #북스타그램 #독서 #책글귀  #알랭드보통 #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #bookstagram - Harmony is achievement of love, not precondition. #todayssentence #todaysreading
The Course of Love is one of my favorite books.  #thecourseoflove #book #sexandlove
This is your heart, my friend. Take a very good care of it. ❤️ You’ve only got one!☝🏻 . Many years ago I read a book entitled Spousonomics. Its authors, advised that treating marriage like business might give it the best chance at long-term success. In other words, in our daily maintenance of love we need to utilise the basic economic principles such as: division of labour, supply and demand and loss aversion. I fell in love with the metaphor back then, even though – in retrospect – it didn’t do much to save my own relationship from dissipating... Few years later, I had another moment of enlightenment. A book, The Road Less Travelled by an American psychiatrist M. Scott Peck (my ultimate Bible - please check it out 🖌📌), offered love solutions both spiritual and practical. Peck put it very clearly: “Love is the will to extend one’s self for the purpose of nurturing one’s own or another’s spiritual growth. Love is not effortless. To the contrary, love is effortful.” That realisation saved my (love) life! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 If you want to delve deeper into the meaning (and practicalities) of love, please read my interview with Alain de Botton from @tsolaus (full of witticisms & some seriously sound love advice) by clicking on a link in my BIO 🔝 . . . . . #love #alaindebotton #theschooloflife #vulnerability #spousonomics #mscottpeck #roadlesstraveled #spirituality #writersofinstagram #littlepearlsofwisdom #thecourseoflove #books #heart #raw #effortful #zen_obi
“What we typically call love is only the start of love.”— still our favorite quote from Alain de Botton’s, the Course of Love. Subscribe now to a personalised reading journey at Bookscribe.
⠀⠀⠀ 알랭 드 보통의 책이 인기가 많은 이유를 잘 모르겠다. 독서모임 준비를 위해 책을 잡았으나, 책장이 넘어가지 않고 정체되어 있다. 클리셰 덩어리라고 느껴지는 부분도 있고, 영미권 표현과 정서가 낯설게 다가오는 것도 있다. ⠀⠀⠀ 굳이 꼽자면, 결혼관에 대해 생각해보게 되는 책인것 같다. ⠀⠀⠀ #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #알랭드보통 #알랭드별로 #thecourseoflove #alaindebotton #투썸플레이스 #twosomeplace #집앞 #myhometown #💑
늦잠자고 일어나서 뒹굴거리다 밥까지 챙겨먹었는데, 아직 토요일 12시도 안됐다고??????? 행벅하다......😌 오랜만에 커피핸잰 뽑아서 즐주 - #thecourseoflove #thelifelist
Reading in the soothing raining day. #thecourseoflove
“We seem to know far too much about how love starts, and recklessly little about how it might continue.” ❤️ - I found one of my favorites on the clearance rack! The Course of Love by Alain de Botton, is so full of amazing quotes that it took me twice as long to read. I wrote a full review with lots of quotes on my blog which you can find by clicking the link in my bio, or by visiting www.bookitforward.blog - - - #thecourseoflove #alaindebotton #blackandwhite @alaindebotton_traveller @alaindebotton @barnesandnoble #barnesandnoble #bookstagram #bookblog #bookitforward #bookblogger #bookworm #reading #bookstagrammar #bookreviewer #bookreview #booknews #bookboost #bookish #booklove #bookaholic #books📚 #readingcommunity #reader #bloglife #bloggerstyle #bookcommunity #blog #bloggerlife #blogs #blogging
We are never through with the requirement for acceptance. This isn’t a curse limited to the inadequate and the weak. Insecurity may even be a sign of well-being. It means we haven’t allowed ourselves to take other people for granted, that we remain realistic enough to see that things could turn out badly- and that we are invested enough to care. Alain de Botton
Perfect evening with #thecourseoflove #alandebotton #engrossing #foodforthought and I want  #kindleunlimited !
Alain de Botton is one of my favorite philosophers / writers. I happened to watch one of his speech on YouTube and immediately fell in love with this witty and bald (sorry, just can’t ignore it :-)) man. So funny yet so wise. “ The course of love” is a wonderful instruction manual for relationships and marriages. It shows us a sad but hopeful road to love. De Botton takes a god-like perspective on love and marriage, dissects it, and helps us see that it’s easy to fall in love but not so easy to make it last. There is no such thing as “the one and only”. A good match is not an abstract concept, is not a set of perfect complementarity of hobbies or interests, but the ability we hold to tolerate each other’s differences and weaknesses, and despite all the disappointments and frustrations still try to understand, accept and love. A good match is an accomplishment and achievement of love, not a prerequisite. We humans are longing for security and adventures at the same time. Governed by two fundamentally different desires, the year- after-year predictable marriages are bound to be boring and sad. Accepting marriage means giving up the pursuit of perfection and not falling into the media's exaggeration of romanticism. There are two different love modes, to love and to be loved. We were so much loved by our parents when were children; after we grow up, we carry this belief into adulthood, still hoping to be always loved. Entering into an relationship or marriage with this belief is bound to hurt and get hurt. Only when we learn to love the other person can we grow up and be ready for marriage. To love is a choice, an ability and a life-long education. #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove
“When children cry, we don’t accuse them of being mean or self-pitying; we wonder what has upset them.  When they bite, we know they must be frightened or momentarily vexed.  We are alive to insidious effects that hunger, a tricky digestive tract, or lack of sleep may have on mood.  How kind we would be if we managed to import even a little of this instinct into adult relationships—if here, too, we could look past the grumpiness and viciousness and recognize the fear, confusion and exhaustion which almost invariably underlie them.  This is what it would mean to gaze upon the human race with love.” —from Alain de Botton’s book The Course of Love
“Few in this world are ever simply nasty; those who hurt us are themselves in pain. The appropriate response is hence never cynicism or aggression but, at the rare moments one can manage it, always love.” ⁣ .⁣ Alain de Botton is one of those writers who always speaks to me and has me highlighting every sentence in his books. The Course of Love is like therapy for your soul ❤️⁣ .⁣ And if all else fails and you can’t manage to show those grumpy people love, just give them some Lucky Charms ice cream 😬⁣ .⁣ Have you read any Alain de Botton?? . . . . . #bookstagram #bookish #bookblogger #bostonblogger #booksofinstagram #readersofinstagram #readreadread #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #amreading #luckycharms #icecream #foodforthesoul
Have you ever read a book that began to shift your perspective the moment you opened it? Every word to spill from Alain de Botton’s mind has worked that way for me. His vulnerable commentary on the human condition is a piece of art in itself. Sentences, packed with more power than I knew possible. Botton’s wisdom is shared with the world through @theschooloflifelondon and now I shall too share with you some epic excerpts from #thecourseoflove: . He needed to learn that love is a skill rather than an enthusiasm. . Sulking pays homage to a beautiful, dangerous ideal that can be traced back to our earliest childhoods: the promise of wordless understanding. . We too often act from scripts generated by the crises of long ago that we’ve all but consciously forgotten. We behave according to an archaic logic which now escapes us, following meaning we can’t properly lay bare to those we depend on most. We may struggle to know which period of our lives we are really in, with whom we are truly dealing and what sort of behavior the person before us is rightly owed. We can be a little tricky to be around. . We don’t need to be constantly reasonable in order to have good relationships; all we need to have mastered is the occasional capacity to acknowledge with good grace that we may, in one or two areas, be somewhat insane. . . . . #artcollective #artbynights #artistoftheday #becauseofreading #bookcommunity #bookstagramfeature #epicreads #littlebookworm #readersofinstagram #readingismagic #creativityeveryday #cornersofmyworld #nothingisordinary #highvibetribe #youaremagic #stillswithstories #soulconnection #liveinspired #writinginspiration #wordsmith #alaindebotton #schooloflife #instaread #readingisfundamental #readingnook #bookrecommendations
#thecourseoflove #결혼#무한히친절한도박
"I will never be able to do or be everything you want, or vice versa, but I'd like to think that we can be the sort of people who will dare to tell each other who we really are. The alternative is silence and lies, which are the real enemies of love." #thecourseoflove by #allaindebotton
春日雨綿綿, 在日式家庭咖啡廳裡, 與論文和報告的長期抗戰之初。  _________ 能借腦袋給我嗎 迪波頓先生🙄  #getstuck #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #inspiration
💜AMAZINGLY DELICIOUS BOOK ALERT PEEPS!!💥💜. #letstalkaboutlove . If you are wondering how to create lasting, long term relationships in our “commitment fobic, instant love, something better might come along around the corner, not looking for anything serious” kinda world?💭👀❤️🙃🙌🏼 . Get your hands on this gem 💎 📚 of a read by #alaindebotton called #thecourseoflove ✨❤️ . It gives you in the most raw yet beautiful kinda way the answers to the question : WHAT HAPPENS WHEN TRUE LIVE MEETS REAL LIFE?👀🤷🏼‍♀️😁 . Too many💡 moments to keep count of 🙌🏼❤️. . You are welcome 😊✌🏼. . Aloha, Suvi xx
💜AMAZINGLY DELICIOUS BOOK ALERT PEEPS!!💥💜. #letstalkaboutlove . If you are wondering how to create lasting, long term relationships in our “commitment fobic, instant love, something better might come along around the corner, not looking for anything serious” kinda world?💭👀❤️🙃🙌🏼 . Get your hands on this gem 💎 📚 of a read by #alaindebotton called #thecourseoflove ✨❤️ . It gives you in the most raw yet beautiful kinda way the answers to the question : WHAT HAPPENS WHEN TRUE LIVE MEETS REAL LIFE?👀🤷🏼‍♀️😁 . Too many💡 moments to keep count of 🙌🏼❤️. . You are welcome 😊✌🏼. . Aloha, Suvi xx
YOU DESERVE BETTER✨✅👍💓 #letstalkaboutlove . If a person wants to have you in their life, if they want to have you as a partner in crime, they will make you a priority. Not an afterthought. They will never make you question whether they care about you, that they love you. You will feel it, know it. Their actions will show you they do🙌🏼🗣 . If the air is filled with excuses from the beginning of why they are not there or that they were too busy. The odds are you are just not too high on their list of priorities. Other things are.👎🏼✍️💯 . Do you want to be someones hustle on the side, a convenience for moments when they are lonely or needy, do you want to be another persons sweet sneaky treat on the side of their actual life? 💭 . You decide. 🙏🏻💥If people treating you like an after thought is ok for you, and you give them chances over and over again, just to be disappointed. Made feel alone and unwanted.😞Ask yourself❓. Why I feel I am not worthy of more. What was broken once to convince me I am not❓ What led to this negative self talk, lack of selflove❓. . 👉🏼A previous relationship 👉🏼Childhood 👉🏼Trauma 👉🏼Perfectionism 👉🏼What was that for you, what happened?. . These can all be healed, but it takes work FROM you. I can lead you and hold a space for you. Show you how. But FIRST you need to decide you want to change. That you want to find love that is worthy of you. That you are tired of feeling less than.🙌🏼💜 . I'd wish you to require more of yourself. Value yourself enough to understand you deserve better. So much better, my love. ✅🙏🏻✨💜 . Stop the cycle of getting less than you deserve. Stop the cycle feeding into the thinking you are not good enough to be loved unconditionally.💥💥💯 . Let that sink in!.✌🏼 . Aloha, Suvi xx .
YOU DESERVE BETTER✨✅👍💓 #letstalkaboutlove . If a person wants to have you in their life, if they want to have you as a partner in crime, they will make you a priority. Not an #afterthought. They will never make you question whether they care about you, that they love you. You will feel it, know it. Their actions will show you they do🙌🏼🗣 . If the air is filled with excuses from the beginning of why they are not there or that they were too busy. The odds are you are just not too high on their list of priorities. Other things are.👎🏼✍️💯 . Do you want to be someones hustle on the side, a convenience for moments when they are lonely or needy, do you want to be another persons sweet sneaky treat on the side of their actual life? 💭 . . You decide. 🙏🏻💥If people treating you like an after thought is ok for you, and you give them chances over and over again, just to be disappointed. Made feel alone and unwanted.😞Ask yourself❓. Why I feel I am not worthy of more. What was broken once to convince me I am not❓ What led to this negative self talk, lack of selflove❓. . 👉🏼A previous relationship 👉🏼Childhood 👉🏼Trauma 👉🏼Perfectionism 👉🏼What was that for you, what happened?. . These can all be healed, but it takes work FROM you. I can lead you and hold a space for you. Show you how. But FIRST you need to decide you want to change. That you want to find love that is worthy of you. That you are tired of feeling less than.🙌🏼💜 . I'd wish you to require more of yourself. Value yourself enough to understand you deserve better. So much better, my love. ✅🙏🏻✨💜 . Stop the cycle of getting less than you deserve. Stop the cycle feeding into the thinking you are not good enough to be loved unconditionally.💥💥💯 . Let that sink in!.✌🏼 . Aloha, Suvi xx .
이 책 계속 읽기로 함.  한국어판 제목은 맘에 안 든다. 작은 신비감 마저 못 견디나봐. 보통 그렇더라.  #보통to보통 #수미상관  #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove  #낭만적연애와그후의일상
today’s self-care brought to you by de Botton and de bath.
보통아저씨의 보통사랑이야기 (평점 7/10)  #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #알랭드보통 #thecourseoflove #사랑이란 #북스타그램 #책스타그램 #사랑책 #보통사랑 #오늘의책
연애를 하면서 겪어나가는 과정을 담은‘낭만적 연애와 그 후의 일상’  사랑을 함으로써 온전한 나와 연인을 찾아가는 과정들을(연애~결혼~그 후, 그래서 course of love 인가) 객관적이면서도 주관적으로 풀어나가는 책이다, 나뿐만 아니라 다른 사람들도 비슷한 생각을 하면서 읽었다는 점에 꽤나 보편적인 과정을 다룬 책인가보다 싶었고 중간중간 공감되는 부분을 읽으며 이 책을 지금이라도 읽은게 참 다행이라는 생각이 든다.  그리고 이 책을 읽으면서 우리는 우리의 애인에게 보다 더 무한하고도 무조건적으로 영원한 애정을 부여할 수 있으며 동시에 절대권력자가 될 수 있는 특권마저도 가질 수 있게 된다는 생각이 든다, 작가는 결혼: “자신이 누구인지 또는 상대방이 누구인지를 아직 모르는 두 사람이 상상할 수 없고 조사하기를 애써 생략해버린 미래에 자신을 결박하고서 기대에 부풀어 벌이는 관대하고 무한히 친절한 도박”이라고 말했다. #그러나세상에는 셀 수 없이 많은, 이 무한히 친절한 도박의 배를 타고,기꺼이 이 배의 선장이 되는 선택을 한 후, 몇십년을 함께하는 대단히 수고스럽지만 숭고한 행복의 바다를 함께 항해하는 생각보다 대담한 연인들이 더 많다는 생각이 든다 :) #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #thecourseoflove  #알랭드보통#책 #책추천
#repost @fincankoleksiyoncusu (@get_repost) ・・・ ‘Doğru insan diye bir şey yoktur. Biraz yakından bakınca herkes biraz sorunludur.’ ‘Ancak sevmeye hazır olunca ve sevilmeye bu kadar kafayı takmamızın doğallıktan uzak ve tehlikeli olduğunu fark edince evlenmemiz gerekir.’ #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #aşkdersleri
A little Jerry jam for your day.. #thecourseoflove
Lil corner of lurv 🧡 this book is really great and challenging and i think everyone should read it who is or plans to be in a relationship 🤟 #thecourseoflove #plantmama #iloveyou #dslooking #mydarlingminimal #darlinghome #darlingmovement #livecolorfully
Another quote about love from a book I am reading at the moment for book club. A few friends and I are trying help each other read more this year and a book club was the only way... it’s working. 📖👊🏻
책을 자주 못읽어서 초큼 속상해.  친구가 졸업했는데 내가 꽃다발 들고 찍어버리기~! 🤗  #daily #독서 #thecourseoflove #셀카 #꽃다발
"Marriage : a hopeful, generous, infinitely kind gamble taken by two people who don't know yet who they are or who the other might be, binding themselves to a future they cannot conceive of and have carefully omitted to investigate." #thecourseoflove by #allaindebotton examines the journey of love ; from Rabih and Kristen's first encounter to marriage to having kids and finally ending up with a conclusion on what it means to be ready for love. With short paragraphs of contemplation in between fiction writing Alain de Botton explains the common feelings, expectations, disappointments and dilemmas faced in a relationship & how these insights can guide us to be more understanding, make thoughtful decisions, be better partners.  I wouldn't call this a happy/tragic/dramatic/full of plot twist love story (although it does have a positive ending), but it does narrate a realistic picture of a relationship, with all of it's mundanity and excitements. Recommend for those who are about to jump into one.  3/5 stars but #essaysinlove is a better read if you're wondering... "We take this idea of love with us into adulthood. Grown up, we hope for a re-creation of what it felt like to be ministered to and indulged. In a secret corner of our mind, we picture a lover who will anticipate our needs, read our minds, act selflessly and make everything better. It sounds "romantic", yet it is a blueprint for disaster."
가끔은  서로 죽이고싶은 마음이 들고, 몇번은 자기 자신을 죽이고 싶은 마음이 들것이다. 이것이 진짜 러브스토리이다. - 러브스토리는, 누군가 우리를 다시보지 않으려 할까봐 두려워 할때가 아니라, 그들이 우리를 항상 보는것에  이의를 제기하지 않을때 시작된다. - 이름이 보이면 책을 사보는, 좋아하던 작가_ 오랜만에 만난_ 오랜만에 소설책 -  #공감 #책추천 #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #알랭드보통 #thecourseoflove #문득_사진찍고보니한글이너무예쁨 #야밤에봉창
"Romantik evlilik vizyonu 'doğru insanı' bulmanın önemini vurgular. Bu ifadeyle kastedilen, bizi ilgilendiren pek çok meseleye ve benimsediğimiz değerlere duygudaşlıkla yaklaşan kişidir. Uzun vadede böyle biri yoktur. Çünkü bizler çok fazla çeşitlilik gösteren ve son derece kendine has olan varlıklarız. Dolayısıyla kalıcı bir eşleşme olamaz. Bize hakikaten en uygun partner, mucizevi bir şekilde bütün zevklerimizin ortak olduğu kişi değil, zevklerimiz arasındaki farklılıkları akıl yoluyla ve içtenlikle müzakere etmeyi beceren kişidir. 'Doğru insan'ın alametifarikası, mükemmel tamamlayıcılık gibi soyut bir fikirden ziyade, benzeşmezlikleri hoş görme kapasitesidir. Uyuşmak aşkın bir kazanımıdır, önkoşulu olmamalıdır." . . #alaindebotton #aşkdersleri #thecourseoflove #selyayıncılık #bookstagrammer #bookshelf #books #bookstagram #bookoftheday #instabook #instaread #instakitap #kitap #gününkitabı #kimneokudu #iznikçini #mum #bookmark #kitapyorumu #kitapkurdu #bookaholic #okudumbitti #kitaptavsiyesi #kitapkurdu #booknerd
⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #알랭드보통 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 완벽한 행복은 아마 한번에 5분이 채 넘지 않을, 작고 점진적인 단위들로만 찾아온다는 것을 그는 알고 있다. 이 순간은 두 손으로 붙잡아 소중히 간직해야 할 행복이다. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 평범한 인생을 사는 데에도 용기가 필요하다. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #thecourseoflove #alaindebotton ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Perfect happiness lingers around us less than 5 minuites at one time. We have to seize the moment with our hands when it comes. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ We need a courage to have a normal life.
- #sns는인생의낭비가아닐수있다 책 읽어서남주기 (@checknam_8) 6달째 참여. 기부 누적액 : 8000원 기부 성공  #낭만적연애와그후의일상 #thecourseoflove #알랭드보통  연인이 되기 전 부터의 이야기를 짜임새있고 세세하게 묘사한 글을 읽기 시작 할 때 잠이 쏟아지지만 그 후의 이야기에 많은 공감들을 할 수있어서 좋았다. 시간이나면 한번 더 읽고 싶은 책. -지나갔거나 지금함께이거나 나중에함께 할 사람을 위한 소설  #책읽어서남주기1902 #서울대학교어린이병원 #남주는형제  #기부 #책 #독서 #북스타그램 #책스타그램 #책추천 #book#소설
code: the course of love authr: Alain de bottom desc: trade paperback, used ₱200
Proving to be a worthwhile read so far. #thecourseoflove#bookclubofinstagram#bookstagram.
“In an ideal world, marriage vows would be entirely rewritten. At the altar, a couple would speak thus: ‘We accept not to panic when, some years from now, what we are doing today will seem like the worst decision of our lives. Yet we promise not to look around, either, for we accept that there cannot be better options out there. Everyone is always impossible.’” —————————————————— #bookstagram #booknerd #ig_bucharest #iphonography #babyboy #motherofdragons #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes
“Marriage: a hopeful, generous, infinitely kind gamble taken by two people who don’t know yet who they are or who the other might be, binding themselves to a future they cannot conceive of and have carefully omitted to investigate.” ————————————————————————#bookstagram #booknerd #ig_bucharest #iphonography #babyboy #motherofdragons #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes
One of the best books I’ve read | “We don’t need to be constantly reasonable in order to have good relationships; all we need to have mastered is the occasional capacity to acknowledge with good grace that we may, in one or two areas, be somewhat insane.” || ————————————————————————#bookstagram #booknerd #ig_bucharest #iphonography #babyboy #motherofdragons #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #relationshipgoals #relationshipquotes
Reposting @sabrinapatricia:⠀ ⠀ “It is in the most challenging and darkest of times that we are given the chance to realize how far we have come. Meditation is what came into my life first. It is also the practice that has changed my life so profoundly. Guided me into a direction that for long I have never thought possible. And while I am eternally grateful for this practice for bringing so much more light into my life - I come to realize how precious the continuous practice truly is by encountering the dark. So I keep doing my practice, fully aware that this is what enables me- and those around - to rise above and leads me back to light. ͏⠀ So sit, be still, practice awareness and rise above any fear, insecurities, anger or rage and start living from a place of love. ͏⠀ ad | 📷 @romy_rpr feat. @youm.yoga ·⠀ ·⠀ ·⠀ ·⠀ · ͏⠀ #meditation #neditatedaily #practice #meditationpractice #mindfulness #awareness #doyourpractice #thecourseoflove #stillness #meditationspace #meditationinspiration #bali #ubud #youmyoga #gratitude #fromdarknesstolight
Clarity. . . . . . . . #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #communication #wisdom #acceptance
Bought this book just for its cover. Jacket design by Alison Forner @aforner1,and  linocut by Tess Hines @tesshinesdesigns. Author pretty ok too. Shame about the photograph... . . . . . . . . . #bookcoverdesign #bookcover #graphicdesign #linocut  #booklove #tesshines #alisonforner #thecourseoflove #valentines #valentine #typographydesign #typeeverything #typographydesign #typographyinspired #typove #ilovetypography
LOVE LETTERS 💌 [2/3] ♥️ To My Valentine: This is a letter celebrating our romantic love and all of it’s unromantic moments. ♥️ I am a better person for knowing you — I don’t think we humans can ask for much more out of a partnership. ♥️ Thank you for being the dreamer my practical side needs so often. For constantly challenging me, and forcing me to expand my perspective and open my heart in ways I wouldn’t have otherwise done on my own. As much as it pisses me off, I can admit when something is good for me. Thank you for facilitating and encouraging my personal growth. For the dedication you have to your own vulnerability and growth as an individual and as a partner. ♥️ Sometimes we struggle to get on the same page, and I wonder if we’re even in the same book. Thank you for every moment you’ve sat across from me, however uncomfortable. For working relentlessly to find a meeting place somewhere in the middle of the space that divides us. Thank you for holding me. For giving my hard head a place to rest until it softens. ♥️ Thank you for all of the ways you make me laugh. For all of our silly nicknames and voices and inside jokes that no one but us could possibly begin to understand. Thank you for the ordinary moments. For every night that ends with a late dinner and Youtube compilations of old commercials. There’s no one I’d rather do life with. You’re my favorite weirdo. I love you. ♥️ @dennytvrdik
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!⠀ I’m currently reading the best book on LOVE by @alaindebotton_traveller.  Feeling very grateful for the love of my life and the life we share. ⠀ ⠀ #riteofpassage #thecourseoflove #ritualoflove
‘Doğru insan diye bir şey yoktur. Biraz yakından bakınca herkes biraz sorunludur.’ ‘Ancak sevmeye hazır olunca ve sevilmeye bu kadar kafayı takmamızın doğallıktan uzak ve tehlikeli olduğunu fark edince evlenmemiz gerekir.’ #alaindebotton #thecourseoflove #aşkdersleri
💜 #onzetunneloflove 💜 Happy Valentine's Day #rotterdam! Check out this glorious light installation in the #maastunnel celebrating the connection between both sides of Rotterdam! It's on until Friday 15th, 8am-11pm. 💕 📖 About the book, #thecourseoflove by Alain de Botton: "We all know the headiness and excitement of the early days of love. But what comes after? In Edinburgh, a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married, they have children—but no long-term relationship is as simple as "happily ever after." The Course of Love is a novel that explores what happens after the birth of love, what it takes to maintain love, and what happens to our original ideals under the pressures of an average existence. You experience, along with Rabih and Kirsten, the first flush of infatuation, the effortlessness of falling into romantic love, and the course of life thereafter. Interwoven with their story and its challenges is an overlay of philosophy—an annotation and a guide to what we are reading.  This is a Romantic novel in the true sense, one interested in exploring how love can survive and thrive in the long term. The result is a sensory experience—fictional, philosophical, psychological—that urges us to identify deeply with these characters and to reflect on his and her own experiences in love. Fresh, visceral, and utterly compelling, The Course of Love is a provocative and life-affirming novel for everyone who believes in love." (Source: @goodreads)  #ibelieveinbookfairies #bookfairiesnetherlands 💚📚💚📚💚📚💚📚💚📚💚📚💚📚💚📚💚 #bookstagram #boekstagram #boeken #lovebooks #booklover #booklovers #bookworm #bookish #instabooks #bibliophile #boekstagram #picoftheday #instabook #bookfairies #rotterdam #love #tunnel #valentinesday #art #valentine #pink
“เขามาทางเธอ แต่ไม่ได้มาจากเธอและแม้ว่าเขาอยู่กับเธอ แต่ก็ไม่ใช่สมบัติของเธอเธออาจจะให้ความรักแก่เขา แต่ไม่อาจให้ความนึกคิดได้เพราะว่าเขาก็มีความนึกคิดของตนเอง” #thecourseoflove #alaindebotton  #happyvalentinesday
“Love reaches a pitch at those moments when our beloved turns out to understand, more clearly than others have ever been able to, and perhaps even better than we do ourselves, the chaotic, embarrassing and shameful parts of us. That someone else gets who we are and both sympathizes with and forgives us for what they see underpins our whole capacity to trust and to give. Love is a dividend of gratitude for our lover’s insight into our own confused and troubled psyche.” 💞 The Course of Love is about what happens after two people tie the knot and the courtships ends. It’s about two ordinary people trying to make their relationship work even when life gets in the way. 💞 The book is narrated by a third person who adds his own opinions and philosophy regarding Rabih and Kristen’s relationship. Every time they argue or misunderstand each other, the author tries to give his own insight on why people act the way they do when they’re in love. It’s almost like a self-help book for lovers! 💞 Read this if you’re looking for a non-mushy book recommendation on love! Happy Valentine's Day! ❤ 💞 #thecourseoflove #alaindebotton
“Love is a skill, not an enthusiasm.” A cynically hopeful narrative on love and marriage that posits the many pitfalls of romanticism—first finished book of 2019, just in time for Valentine’s Day.❣️#thecourseoflove #rbrreadingrainbow
Happy Valentines day to everyone! .  I’ve been reading this book lately and I thought I should share a quote I came across about love. “Love stories begin when someone decides they would have no doubt in seeing you all the time, when they could easily run away. It’s when they exchange solemn vows promising to hold you, and be held by you, for life. ❤️ . I am also celebrating my birthday today, so this illustration is what I will be doing tonight... one cocktail for valentines and one cocktail for my birthday ✨
❤️ 2019. 2. 12 . 1️⃣ 제목을 읽었을 때 처음 든 생각은? 특별히 든 생각은 없었다. 워낙 유명한 작가이고 작가의 신작이라고 해서 읽어 보고 싶었을 뿐이었다.(그런데 이제서야 읽다니! 😅) 책을 읽으면서 그리고 회원들과 이야기를 나누면서 깊이 있게 생각해 보게 되었다. . 이란 제목에서 여기서 ‘와’란 접속 조사는 같은 자격으로 이어질 때 사용한다. 하지만 일반적으로 ‘낭만적’ 연애와 그 후의 ‘일상’이 같을 수 있나를 놓고 본다면 이 ‘와’의 연결이 적절한가라는 의문이 든다. 현실이 아닌 소설 속 내용만 놓고 봐도 그렇다. 낭만적이던 연애가 결혼과 동시에 낭만과는 점점 멀어진다. 결혼은 현실을 살아야 하고 감상적이고 이상적일 수 없기 때문이다. . 원제목은 ‘The Course of Love’이다. 이 소설을 연애와 결혼에 관한 철학 소설이라고 명명한다면 사랑의 과정은 ‘철학적인 삶을 사는 과정’이 아닐까 하는 생각이 든다.  2️⃣ 내가 가지고 있는 결혼에 대한 환상은 무엇인가? 결혼에 대해 깊이 있게 생각을 해 본 적이 없어서 한참을 생각했다. 한참을 생각해서 말한 것이 함께 아침과 저녁을 먹고 주말에는 가끔 남편이 해 주는 요리도 먹는 것이라 말하니 회원들이 환상이란다. 😅 일상적이라 생각했던 것이 환상이라니 참 씁쓸하다.  3️⃣ ‘바람’ 혹은 ‘간통’에 대한 나의 생각은? 소설에서는 외도가 결혼 생활에서 있을 수 있는 일련의 과정처럼 말하고 있어 적잖은 충격을 받았다. 이 충격은 ‘결혼’에 대한 거부감만 가중시켰다. 주인공 라비가 외도를 하게 되고 후에 양심의 가책을 느낀다. 커스틴에게 말하고 싶어 하지만 가정의 평화를 위해서 끝까지 함구한다. 가정의
지금 이 중요한 결정의 순간을, 선물받은 스벅 7 레이어 가나슈 케이크와 (아메리카노 대신)유스베리 티와 함께🍰☕. 이 케이크는 처음 먹어보는데 지금 내게 최적의 potion! 감사요🙏. . 서현역 영풍문고에서 오후내내 이책 저책 들여보면서 잠시 미루다가 수내역 스벅에 들어오기까지, 결정을 미룬 흔적들.  영감을 주는 책 두권.  When breath becomes air: 미국 신경외과 레지던트가 뇌종양 판정받고 죽기전까지 쓴 가슴쓰린 이야기. 서서 읽다가 빠져들었다. 인터넷교보로 주문할 생각.  The course of love: 알랭드보통 책. 사서 읽을지는 모르겠지만 간혹 문구가 대단히 공감간다는 걸 새삼 느꼈다. 특히 "marriage doesnt begin w a proposal, or even an initial meeting ... " 부분이.  1달 전에 폰 액정 깨진 경험으로 범퍼 케이스 살 생각이었는데, 결국 단돈 7천원짜리 젤리베어 장식 유혹에 넘어가 이걸 사고말았다. . 이제 그만 미루자. .  #결정의순간 #7레이어가나슈케이크 #영감주는책 #whenbreathbecomesair #thecourseoflove #젤리베어#폰케이스
#thelabelbookclub: If you are or ever have been in a romantic relationship, this book is for you. ‘The Course Of Love’ by author Alain De Botton decodes all the stages of a relationship through the eyes of protagonists Rabih and Kirsten.  Without judgement and far away from self help book formulas, the chapters unveil everything we wish we knew while we were in relationships for most of our lives, and force us to make mental notes for the existing and future ones.  Could the argument have gone differently? Could the dinner have been not-so-silent, and how best can we keep our romance and lust in balance around our kids.  This book stirs deep emotions and unruffles all those relationship feathers in the simplest of ways. And if you have ever considered therapy, this book affirms why it is a brilliant idea. We expect our partners and spouses to be our best friends, lovers, mentors and cheerleaders - is it asking too much from one person? Read the book to find out. We couldn’t think of a better book to read in this loved up month and we’d love to know what you think of it.  #thelabellife #valentinesday #thecourseoflove #alaindebotton #edinburgh #scotland #weekendreads #whattoread #nowreading #bookclub #bookreviews
What an honor to have witnessed this production of A Midsummer Night's Dream with @operaphila . After a long and trying day, its always rejuvenating to witness a fantastic performance of one of your favorite operas. Bravo! #opera #music  #amidsummernightsdream #blue #green #white #red #gold #fairy #magic #love #shakespeare #thecourseoflove
Спасибо Алибеку Канатовичу за прошедший мощнейший курс по реставрации зубов новейшими технологиями как дентальный микроскоп, бинокуляр. #совершенствуйся #развивайся #учитьсяникогданепоздно #наука#интерес#стоматология#реставрация#курсыпостоматологии #СМКлиник#лечениезубов #дентальныймикроскоп #бинокулярныелупыдлястоматолога #бинокулярюнивет#смагулстом #смагулдент#атырау#частныеклиники #люблюсвоюработу❤ #благадарюаллахазавсе🙏 #спасибоначальству #респектЖанбулатИскакович#thecourseoflove #sertifikat #certificate #mastercourse #practice

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