♥️Do you think you’re emotionally available for a healthy, loving, and committed relationship? If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners then you must come to terms with your own emotional unavailability. If your experience is that you find yourself attracting partners, relationships, or situations that leave you feeling unheard, unsupported, unloved, uncared for, and unseen Then this is because in many ways you are not hearing, seeing, supporting, loving, or caring for yourself. When your deepest desire is to show up lovingly for yourself you won’t entertain anything less than what you already enjoy giving to yourself. But because you have learned unconscious and conscious strategies for protecting yourself against past and recent pain. You may fear truly opening your heart to love and may internally register the unavailable person as safe. True safety is not found in choosing ‘safe’ relationships these often lack the depth, passion, vulnerability, and aliveness for a relationship to thrive. True safety comes when you are able to connect with your higher guidance and your inner experience and take the required action to support yourself. Remember your outer relationships generally reflect your inner relationship. When you truly are available for yourself you will make the necessary adjustments and learn from them. You will also know that reaching out for high-level support is one of the most loving things you can do for yourself. Our protections which can show up as self sabotage, control, or avoidance can be so strong; and so subtle. That whilst you can absolutely work on them on your own they can be very tricky. We all have blind spots don’t let yours get in your way another day. Are you tired of: ⛔️Dead-end; non-starter relationships? ⛔️Feeling anxiety around making a mistake? ⛔️Same person different face?
When dreams become your reality 💭 My dream was to help busy single professionals find love and now I’m doing it. I want people to enjoy their dating experiences and know that I’m with them every step of the way. Dating isn’t always easy but the key is to never give up❤️❤️❤️
I had high hopes for the second date with #48. Alas there were so many red flags. Too many to count! But I did have a nice time. And now I’m confused. I told him that I didn’t think we were #compatible and he asked why. And that confused me even more and made me feel like a jerk. I feel like a guy in this case. Usually it’s the girl asking for #closure and an explanation in my experience. The easiest route would be to ghost but he’s asking me for some explanations. But beyond the #redflags something just felt off. Is that enough to stop seeing a decent guy? Trying to trust that my #intuition knows what’s what. And be a decent human in the process.
Он верил, что душа родная Соединиться с ним должна, Что, безотрадно изнывая, Его вседневно ждет она; Он верил, что друзья готовы За честь его приять оковы И что не дрогнет их рука Разбить сосуд клеветника; Что есть избранные судьбами, Людей священные друзья; Что их бессмертная семья Неотразимыми лучами Когда-нибудь нас озарит И мир блаженством одарит. . . . . . #lookingforlove#whereareyou#sosad#cute#perfect#yourhert#imnotokay#imnotfine
Once again, we are partnering with NOLA Brewing Company for a tipsy twist on speed dating. Come join us as we pair off into small group to sample delicious beers and meet new people in a fun and casual environment. Never been to one of these "speed dating" events and don't know what to say? Don't worry, we will provide the icebreakers! At the end of the event, if you're interested in someone, you will fill out a form and leave it with our staff. If there is a match, we will let you know! No pressure--just fun with great beer and hopefully new friends.The beer samples are included in your ticket price. Grab your friends or come alone! Space is limited. Please purchase tickets in advance. Only cash will be accepted at the door. Get your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/its-just-beer-singles-beer-tastingspeed-dating-tickets-54828404233 #speeddating#beertasting#matchmadeinnola