♥️🤴🏻♥️ 1 Korintus 7:4 (4) Isteri tidak berkuasa atas tubuhnya sendiri, tetapi suaminya, demikian pula suami tidak berkuasa atas tubuhnya sendiri, tetapi isterinya. . 1 Petrus 3:7 (7) Demikian juga kamu, hai suami-suami, hiduplah bijaksana dengan isterimu, sebagai kaum yang lebih lemah! Hormatilah mereka sebagai teman pewaris dari kasih karunia, yaitu kehidupan, supaya doamu jangan terhalang. . . Thank GOD for sending him to me 🥰 @robert_grace11 Terima kasih Tuhan untuk keberadaannya dan segala yang ada padanya. Kiranya Engkau memberkati setiap hal yang dilakukannya, supaya Engkau memberikan keinginan rahasia hati Bapa padanya, memberikan kehausan dan keinginan akan Engkau. Tuhan, saya meminta agar Engkau memeluknya dengan tangan-Mu yang penuh kasih dan membiarkan dia mengetahui dan merasakan betapa besarnya Engkau mencintainya. Tuhan, kumohon berkatilah dan jagalah suamiku yang terkasih yang Engkau berikan kepadaku. Semoga umurnya panjang dan diberkati, sehat dan kudus; dan biarkanlah saya selalu menjadi berkat dan kesukaan baginya, penghibur di waktu duka, penolong di waktu kesusahan. AMEN 🙏🏻 . . #myhusband#myhubby#mylovelyhusband#mylovelyhubby#myeverything#mylovedone#mysoulmate#myotherhalf#happywife#happywifey#blessedwife#blessedwifey#thanksgod#imsoblessed#nofilter#nofilterneeded
Forgot to share this morning, Day 1 ➡️ Day 3. I woke up feeling good, 2 full days and can already feel and see a difference. It doesn’t take much, just a COMMITMENT to change your life. So what are you waiting for? Are you with me?
What you see is just the surface... What I see is the heart, passion, the pain we all have went through to get where we are today. What I see is powerful. A group of strong, independent, loving women who aspire to inspire. Who work hard for the goals and dreams of others. Every one of our walks have been so different but they are all beautiful because they are what lead us together. Where we can lean on each other and grow more each day. And you, my friend can join us! Whether you are looking to get healthier (physically), want to surround yourself with love and light or you aspire to inspire like we do. We have room for you. Let’s go! #healthyfamilymeals#womenempoweringwomen#sahm#singleladies#momlife#happywifey#youngentrepeneur#businessbuilding#passion#growthmindset#changingtheworld
So this guy and I have been thru many years together. We were dumb young adults and had nothing but each other, we have come so far in life and in our relationship together. 😍😍 We’ve gone from not being able to pay rent and having to move in with my mother in law (who was/is great) to my moms house (shout out!!) to finally moving our new family into a tiny little apartment made for one 😂😂 We have struggled to keep our heads above water to adding not ☝🏼but ✌🏼 more kids to our family and can now afford to go on vacation every year! It makes me proud to know we have each other to lean on and support each other. Proud to know we’ve grown together and individually. I’m proud to be his wife. Making two decisions (marrying the hubs and joining this biz) in life has truly changed me for the better. Thanks for supporting me babe, and thanks for being my rock. 😘#autismmom #busywifebusylife#mombielife#happywifey#teamhubs
Coffee with him ❤️ Whenever @nealjolly & I check in with each other’s hearts and talk about our dreams, I’m filled up and fuelled in ways I can’t describe, but I’ll try: We (all of us) can get so busy working, cleaning, schedules, commitments, etc. that making intentional time can feel like a luxury in some seasons. It can be overlooked. No matter how busy we get, I love that we do this. Like today is one of those days I am so fired up, I want to start a million things that we discussed. I get so impatient (working on this) because I want that instant gratification of a thought/idea/dream coming to life without the waiting. Then I remember to slow it down. There’s so much to learn and grow in grace in the wait. Those are the seasons I’ve learned that it’s not about me. While we work towards these visions we have (that are honestly about serving others, not ourselves), we’re expanding and learning. It fires me up. 🔥 God has put so much on our hearts, and sometimes I get overwhelmed or weary we won’t fulfill all that has been placed there, but I know He’s already working to make all things come together in the season they’re meant to. I love being in the business to create beautiful things and serve others, while pointing them to hope. These “check-ins” are an important routine for us. I’m so grateful: For the coffee (well, hot chocolate), my husband, our heart talks, the visions God is giving us to steward and waiting in anticipation and excitement for what He’s going to do next. We work together and live with eachother (so we spend a lot of time), but it got me thinking how often do you really check in with the people you do life with? It’s one of the things that makes our marriage stronger and I’ll always remember them. What’s cool, is to look back on the past and see how much has been fulfilled or redeemed in the conversations from days gone by. The cup overflows. 🙏 Tag someone you want to check in with today ☕️
I heard something on a podcast. • Excuses don’t matter bc you don’t want something bad enough. I know, I know, we’ve all heard that before. But stay with me... • Most people don’t really believe they can have MORE than they do. Like truly believe that. It doesn’t matter that you don’t have the money, if you haven’t decided what you want. • You have to decide, then get the money. Not give up before you’ve decided. • This was eye opening for me. I realized how much I had lived this life myself, but never put a label on it. Until they day came when it wasn’t enough anymore, and Wade and I decided to shoot higher. • We were both working 40+ hours/week, SHIFT WORK, and never saw each other. Usually, it was me that was missing kids events and social outings. I saw no end in sight. • Sooooo many things I never allowed myself to think possible when I married a cop. It wasn’t really that hard to settle. I love(d) him, and was/am proud to live the cop life. But somewhere down the road, we started to think “what if”. • All our vacations, getting a camper, me quitting my job, adding to our family, paying in cash for a car... Each of these required planning and time, but they all came to fruition. 🙌🏼 And they all started with a decision. • note: none of this happened bc of my side gig. 👉🏼 My side gig happened as a result of my decisions. I decided I wanted MORE, and then found a vessel to get it. Read that again. Be open to possibilities, and be open to solutions. • So no, don’t tell yourself “that’s too expensive”. Decide WHAT you want, and then figure out the HOW. And trust me, you’ll AWAYS find what your looking for. The HOW will come much easier than you think! • ***This moment made possible by a #decision
I can’t lie about it, today’s workout was HARD. Honestly, I don’t know why. • • Today was strength training which I LOVE. I love weights. They’re easy. No problem. Yesterday was cardio. I hate cardio, but I felt fine during the whole thing. • • Even though it was hard, I kept going. And now...a few hours after I feel great. Early morning workouts are my new favorite. 👍🏻 • • • #fitteacher#exhaustedteacher#happywifey#bandteacher#commit#transform20#transformyourmind
Why do we even make resolutions when only 8-9% of people actually achieve them at the end of the year? Seems kind of crazy to set a goal that doesn’t have a plan to achieve it! So why not just wake up every day and try to be better than the day before? Everyday is a new day to start over with a #positivemindset! . . Conquering your mind is the hardest part of making a change in our lives! My mind is like a computer with 20 tabs open at once (well my computer looks like that too 😂) but I am working on being purposeful with my time. It’s not perfect but my focus starts over at the beginning of each new day! . . 🌟 Conquer your mind 🌟 Transform your life . What do you need to conquer first in your mind? Think about that today and make an action plan to do it!!
"When a wife has a good husband, it is easily seen on her face". Thank you for being such a good one Mr. Villasor! Everything is so much easier because I got you. Another adventure awaits and I'm excited for another "little Charlie" to come out soon!❤️ #30weeks#happypreggy#happywifey#blessedandthankful
Me 10 years ago and Me Now with the obvious wonderful addition to my life. WOW!!! I've come a very long way😂 that's all I can say hahaha #10yearchallenge . . Dont mean to toot my own horn but,I'm still PENG atleast, 😂😂, COME ON!!
The WE GOT THIS kiss before we got our a**es handed to us by @shaunt. Shaun T don’t play when you only have 20 minutes 😂 . . Fact: Working out as a couple makes us stronger as a unit ✨ We witness the struggles, motivate each other to push through and come out above all else. I’ll take this date every chance I get ❤️
#realtalk I’ll admit, today I did not show up for my sweet man like he needed me to. He is super allergic to poison oak and has been suffering the last few days as the rash has painfully progressed. Trying to run my errands, do chores, run a side hustle, I had totally overlooked his outreach for some TLC. Looking back, I’m sure he felt neglected and being the tough guy he is, he kept it to himself. But all of this was a recipe for disaster and we ended up blowing up on each other. SAD. I hate admitting these negative situations do happen in our marriage, just as they do in every marriage. I like to pretend after it’s all said and done that we’ll never fight again. Of course this is not reality. But what IS reality is the ability to grow from each negative exchange and to show up better going forward. Marriage isn’t perfect, and we don’t have to think alike but we do need to think together. So my advice for y’all, and myself, when you’re in the heat of an argument, disagreement or distress: Practice the PAUSE. When in doubt, pause. When angry, pause. When tired, pause. When stressed, paused. When you pause, take a deep breath. Just creating a stop in the back and forth, you can each collect yourselves. Then simply ask them, “what do you need in this moment?” Just being seen can diffuse a situation greatly. We all want to be seen and heard. So let’s show up for our partners, especially in their time of need. Xoxo, Mama Mavy
Hey- do know know how we met? He owned a gym I joined said gym and the rest...well you can figure that out! It’s kinda a full circle thing Back to where it all begin...except now our gym is virtual, our trainers are unmatchable and we don’t need to brave the cold to get there! 🤷🏻♀️ . . . . #engagementpictures#relationshipgoals❤️
Day 2!!!!!! Holy Moly. Wtf was that!!??? So. I thought “20 minutes. I’ve got this. I’ve done a similar program for 25 minutes. This can’t be too tough, right?” I was wrong. I have been left speechless and loved every single minute. You want bang for your buck!? THIS is it. I don’t know about you, but I don’t have a lot of time to waste in the morning. I also want to feel like I’m actually accomplishing something and getting results. This. Is. It!!!! It’s STILL not too late! 3 spots left! Link for application in bio.
“Best mom” my mug says. Is that always true? I hope and pray that everyday I try my best but I know I’m not perfect. I know I make mom mistakes along the way. As hard as that can be, I learn and I grow. . One thing I’ve learned in my mom role is the importance of balance. . It’s hard to juggle every day chores, to do list, kids needs, family needs, and your own needs. . I’ve also learned skipping my own time was not a healthy choice. As happy as my life is, ignoring my own needs days after day, week after week only made me feel more anxious and stressed out. This in turn didn’t make me my best self. Smaller things I let get to me, I was on edge, grumpy. I hated that feeling. . I found a community of other moms in the same boat as me. Juggling work, life, kids however they were able to find that balance to make time for themselves too! In that moment I knew I deserved to give myself the time I wanted. . Silly thing is, I didn’t leave my house to find it. This support group was all found on social media! My daily me time..was a program I could long into on my phone, computer or tv. I built friendships, and get constant support and encouragement. I have accountability, I have to show up. I have to give myself me time! . This sound familiar moms? We’ve all been there, some longer than others but moms, you need to take care of yourself too to be your best self for your kids. You deserve it! . “Balance comes in the moments when you stand up for the life you TRULY want for yourself by making choices that you align with that.” #youdeserveit#findyourbalance#yourockmom#momof2girls#kindergartenmom#preschoolmomlife#fitnessmotivation#balancedlife#dreambigorgohome#womensupportingwomen#womenwhohustle#selfgrowth#dreamers#laptoplifestyle#passionate#fitnessinfluencer#momlife#coffeelover#tuesdaymotivation#tuesdayvibes#scarfs#notamorningperson#newenglandstyle#cozyvibes#lovemygirls#happywifey
It comes down to 1 simple thing. ⠀ HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT? ⠀ ⠀ You see when I signed up as a client in March I knew that I wanted it, I knew that I needed it but I didn’t want to work that hard to achieve it.⠀ ⠀ By staying in your old habits you won’t get there.⠀ I FINALLY reached a point when I said ENOUGH! I’m so tired of feeling like this. ⠀ ⠀ It’s crazy how much your life changes when your attitude changes. ⠀ ⠀ My husband says “you’re the rock of this house, so when you are crabby it is miserable for all of us.” ⠀ ⠀ And it’s true. When I was so grouchy I was mean. I didn’t think about what I was saying, I just said it. ⠀ I had NO patience and honestly it was a tough time for our relationship. ⠀ ⠀ I’m glad I made the decision then, so I didn’t lose the amazing people in my life. ⠀ ⠀ My mood instantly gets better after my workout. ⠀ I feel amazing when my nutrition is on point. ⠀ Don’t get me wrong. I enjoy my sweets every once in a while. ⠀ But.......⠀ It comes down to HOW BAD DO YOU WANT IT!? ⠀ ⠀
# 1 Rule. You do YOU! If you think you can, you can. If you think you can’t, stop being a bully! What’s with us and our head games anyways? Like seriously. Be a cheer leader or be a bully. But one will make you happier and one will bring you down. Why am I saying this? I was always that person who was a silent cheerleader with a side of bully, cause we are never supposed to be too good. But why? Because sharing me is about being a cheerleader for myself and others and quieting that bully we have inside. Do you think you are your biggest cheerleader or a bully? These next 6 weeks, myself and 50+ women are going to challenge our inner cheerleader and you should be joining us! Wouldn’t you rather cheer for you?!🎉 I am always cheering for you!! 🙌