sometimes, we need to step back from the thing, person or place we love most for a while to let go of hurtful moments to create space, detach to grow and focus on ourselves more to trust, experience, set boundaries get to know ourselves better to live life freely not, because we don’t feel love anymore but to reflect behavior, echoed words to understand why we love what we love to understand what it means to loose it to understand what true love really means unconditional love doesn’t exist the condition is we have to choose it sometimes, towards ourselves to become our own hero and sometimes, towards others to be a safe harbour time doesn’t heal all wounds it only masquerades forgiveness & emotional maturity does heal wounds resentment causes knots that obstruct flow of energy forgiveness opens up all knots so energy can flow freely and than eventually we become ready to reconcile. true love ~ imagimo ________ It’s gonna be 15 years in summer this year since I came the first time to visit this magical island. It was love at first sight. And coming here once or several times a year, it’s safe to say it became my second home. A week ago I arrived again after taking a break for almost 2 years, the second longest so far. Although having no expectations I wondered if anything in this relationship would have changed. Being pleasantly surprised it felt like home again. Immediately. After taking the first step on the airport. As it always does. This magic feeling which makes me
Life's easy. What it's outside your control zone, you can not control. And what it's inside your control zone, others should not control. #chart#personaldevelopment#psychology#illustration#drawing#arts#thoughtsoftheday#mindfulness#wellness#zen#emotionalmaturity#personalboundaries#cartoon#presentation#graphics#
⏳Time and Growth 🌱 I look at the lady staring at the mirror and I can't help but thank God for the growth. It was the trauma that led to the growth. The emotinal scars led to a light to another journey of wholeness maturity. ..... Everyone is fighting a battle:Mental,Emotional,Spiritual,Physical or Financial that you know nothing about. Be kind and understanding to everyone you come across daily. Today I am sending love to everyone who is trying to heal from something they can't discuss.I am praying for you.Take it easy with yourself, step back and exhale if you have to but always remember that everything unfolds for your greater good. What I have come to learn along my journey is that the battles are part of my amazing story and it will all come to make sense why it happened. Trust your journey. ..... ***Maturity and success are in the details. Take time with yourself*** #wholenessmaturity#spiritualmaturity#emotionalmaturity#intellectualmaturity#financialmaturity#physicalmaturity
In light of all the toxic relationships that seem to be out there, I want to make an important distinction about boundaries and agreements. Which, btw, if our relationships had boundaries and agreements that were honored, they wouldn’t be toxic. Boundaries are for yourself. They don’t exist until you enforce them. You can tell people about your boundaries all you want, all day long, and until there is a transgression and you enforce the boundary, it’s meaningless. And the act of you enforcing the boundary, or not, is an act of self respect, or not. Whatever your action is, that is you showing other people how to treat you. Your boundaries are based on your values, so know your values. (If you’ve made a list of what you need from your relationships, then you’ve made a list of some of your values.) Agreements are between two or more people. Most agreements in relationships are silent, which is what screws us. To have a healthy relationship, agreements must be spoken and agreed to OUT LOUD. It doesn’t hurt to write them down either. No agreements equals anything goes. It’s as simple as saying, “Hey, I’m going to be honest with you, and I’d like for you to be honest with me.” You can even discuss what happens when an agreement is broken, which is based on each other’s boundaries. This is the healthy/cocreative way to have a relationship. Based on my own experience as a child, this was not what was modeled to me, and didn’t feel “normal” for a long time. But it is. Use your words, use your voice, ask for what you need and go from there.
| From emotional addiction to emotional maturity . We are not aware of our habitual need to constantly regenerate drama and get the hormones symphony we are so used to dance to- playing again. If we would recognize it, we would probably do all that we can to stop this addiction, because the cost is your life! YOUR LIFE! . "Live Light Session" No.02 Tomorrow, January 15th, 15:00-15:50 GMT will be all about that. #emotionaladdiction#drama#emotionalmaturity How does it look? Why do we create it? What is the payoff? How to gain your freedom back? . I will be giving you a clear diagram, and if you enroll in the "Live Light Sessions" You will be getting the Light Language sacred geometries for you to apply, I'll explain in the session how. . Go to my link in bio for A. register to "live light session" B. learn more about Light Language in the free online event "really speaks" . Send me your question about this topic today or early morning tomorrow. . Love you! . . . . . . . #sacredgeometry#lightlanguage#selfempowerment#innerfreedom#innerpeace#selfdevelopment#spiritualcoach#masterhealer#masterteacher#consciousnesss#selfawerness#selflove#consciousliving#consciouslife ..................
Thoughts? The levels of collective self-consciousness and self-respect that a people carry can be determined accurately by the standard of care and development it demands for all its young - the future of the people. During the American slave era, Black teenage females were forced to breed baby after baby and were prevented from actively caring for the development of these slave babies. There was no concern for these human beings reaching maximal levels of their genetic potential. This lack of concern for the development of these young human beings was enforced by racist slavemasters and slavemistresses. Today, just as in the slave society, Black teenage girls are caught up in a similar destructive dynamic; producing human beings who subsequently are subjected to low-level development and treated in inhuman ways. The more complex a social system becomes, the higher the level of emotional maturity and formal education needed to negotiate that system successfully. Often, the ultimate level of functioning reached by children is correlated with the level of emotional maturity achieved by the parent(s) prior to the birth of the child. Although income is an important factor, it is a less important factor than emotional maturity in successfully rearing a child - particularly a non-white child living under the conditions of white supremacy. #theisispapers#blackchild#blackchildren#blackparents #emotionalmaturity.
Today is Meaningful Mondays with Misha where I answer all of your relationship questions in our InstaStories. . . I personally invite you to visit our story, ask your questions and check out the advice. All relationship dynamics will be addressed not only romantic (although this is always a crowd favorite). I look forward to receiving your questions. . . You can submit your questions any day via our inbox and questions will be addressed on Mondays. You can always visit the Q&A highlight on our page. . . #lovegrows #votedbestinpremaritalcounselingbytexasbrides #eadotherapist#lovegrow#emotionalmaturity#emotionalwellness#dating#engaged#married#parenting#loveisalifestyle#loveisamindset
I will not quit on my maturation process! 💪💪 #spiritualmaturity#emotionalmaturity#maturitylevel#maturity I have to remind myself that God isn’t trying to kill me; He wants me to mature. He wants me to be better, not bitter. Therefore, I cannot quit on my maturation process. And being uncomfortable isn’t a valid excuse to quit. I will mature above whatever is coming against me, and grow beyond my momentary feelings. I refuse to make final decisions based on temporary emotions. I will mature, I will reach the destination God has for me and I’ll be better because of what I’m going through. #repost @thisiscornelius with @insta.saver.repost • • •
Emotional maturity is taking responsibility for ourselves... our mistakes, our emotions, our needs and our wants. And, perhaps most importantly, our feelings and responses to things. ⋆ So when life presents me with a challenging or painful situation, I chose to sit with it and find the lesson that comes from it instead of reacting. ⋆ What do you do in your daily life to practice emotional maturity?
New Year, same brunching habits. This time at @theparishtucson while still wearing my bf’s pjs (I put them on for the event, don’t fret lol). Thanks to @brunchbabestucson for once again killing it with this pajama party that allowed me to show up slightly undone and with no makeup. The more I work on my emotional intelligence and face my internal crap, the more at ease I feel in my own skin. Another book I’m working on is called “The Power of Now” and was suggested by one of my coworkers. Will be reading that one after I’m done with my current book!
"I VALUE MYSELF I've come a long way in my inner work on myself, and I still have much to do. I have learned that making myself "wrong" for anything is not a healing process. I can examine the situation and see where I could do it better next time. I could look for the thoughts that would support uncomfortable behavior and release them. When I become aware that I am making myself wrong for something, I can stop my punishing manner of thinking. Each day is a learning experience, and by our "mistakes" we learn how to do it differently next time. So I am never wrong. I am just learning. It is all so simple. I love myself through all my experiences, and all is well! -Louise L. Hay "Meditations to Heal Your Life" #selfhealing#selflove#emotions#emotionalgrowth#emotionalmaturity#learningprocess#lettinggo#forgiveness#writtenword#meditation#wordsofaffirmation#louisehay#lifelessons#lifeincolor#enthusiasm#wisdom#love#everythingwithsoul
2019 - “As a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming;” Ephesians 4:14 NASB #rocksteady#emotionalmaturity#growth#shotcallers
🎵💖Daily Guidance for Sat Jan 12💖🎵 Ooh this card is exciting! Someone is getting it on tonight go you! This is falling more into the couples relm. If there was a dry spell due to fights or scheduling, that will end tonight. But something about this evening is going to make it more special than usual. We know more and more DMs are coming into their own sense of emotional security and will either propose or provide the type of love you have been longing for or need. For singles, use this card to be aware of your sexuality and the power that sex has. Not to be old fashioned but it should truly be reserved for someone you love who also loves you. Sex is more powerful than you think. It is the exchanging of 5d energy and spirituality. It is sacred and a reset in a relationship and provides healing. Be sure not to abuse it and hold yourself in higher regard. Sending love and music🎵💖 #affirmations#positivevibes#tarot#positivity#love#loveyourself#emotionalmaturity#lovetarot#twinflames#divinemasculine#divinefeminine#tarotreadings#tarotofig#instatarot
Trying to get people to adopt a #vegan relationship to farm animals and horses will never work if your relationship to the dependent animals in your home is still exploitative. #veganism is not a diet. It’s a commitment to not exploiting other beings — including other human animals. The diet, the end to animal cruelty and obvious forms of abuse are all secondary results of adopting a vegan lifestyle, and should never be the primary focus — when they are, it’s a clear sign that the “vegan” is not in the integrity of non-exploitation themselves, especially when anger and judgment accompany their activism — trust me, I used to be there too. As a former professional animal trainer with 20 years experience exploiting animals for my own needs, I’m an expert in recognizing exploitation beyond anything else I’ve learned about the beings in our care. I can also help you end it in your life and with the animals you love. Stand in the integrity of veganism by learning how to undomesticate your relationship to animals. Contact me to find out how. We have to end polarizing thoughts and behavior if we’re ever going to come together and restore balance to our planet. #nonviolence#learnfrommistakes#humility#grow#evolve#animaladvocate#spiritualactivist#bethechange#thechangestartswithin#focusonyourself#beforetryingtochangeothers#inspire#accountability#responsibility#emotionalmaturity#balance
"Sonder" What's it like to dance? A slow build up occurs, And when set free, Electricity flows through you. Views of diamonds shining in the sky at night, Awakens stardust in your veins. As heated bath water loosens walls around your bones, the mind becomes still water. Entangled in symphonies of words, Elevated through grandiose libraries. The way music creates light shows in your psyche. Afternoon walks turn into fruitful flowers and sun waves of positive fortune. We are only capable of birthing the most imaginable feelings ever. Happiness is a manifestation of the self. -S.H. #selfhealing#emotions#feeling#growth#poetry#lifeincolor#passion#adventures#freesouls#love#poetsofinstagram#writersofinstagram#everythingwithsoul#emotionalmaturity#wisdom#lifelessons#beauty#depth#perspective
Here are some Questions to think about and ask self: . Have you noticed any growth within your emotional body, your emotional intelligence ? . . What are some of your “tiggers” that you have been working through? . . How quickly can you spot them now, and what do you do differently then before when once triggered? . . #emotionalintelligence . . Stop, think and respond . . Don’t take things so personal and blame the other person(s) for triggering you. . Instead take accountability for why you were triggered. Look within and analyze why certain emotions came up. When you quickly blame the other, for the way you were triggered ....you won’t be able to heal what is coming up to (for) your attention. In other words ... “don’t shoot the messenger”, instead review the message and get to the core of the point.
"You didn't sign up to be a babysitter. You are not their parent. You are not their therapist, counselor or life coach - and if you try to be any of those things, you CAN become an unwitting enabler. Yes, you might add to their frustration on some level, but bad behavior comes from a person's own 'demons' rooted in their history; fear, insecurity, jealousy, selfishness, baggage, unhappiness, ungrateful, etc. Then THOSE things are brought into your relationship. And since no one wants to admit their own demons, we blame our partner or expect our partners to make it all better. It's not just them. We can be guilty too. Logic, reason, clear explanations - even love - won't likely do the job (and, you're probably exhausted from trying to anyway) because it's not about you. It's about them and their baggage. It's about a response. It's one thing to be triggered (and then deal with it in an adult manner), it's another to be triggered and turn that into wrath, fighting, neglect, disrespect or any other bad behavior. The truth is, they need to get their sh** together. They need their own "come-to-Jesus" moment. A self-realization epiphany. Once they admit, they can get help. If they are unwilling to seek help (professional or otherwise), I wouldn't trust their "I'm working on it" or any promises they make - which they've sold to you before. Patterns aren't changed by hope. The best thing YOU can do, in the interim, is set firm boundaries for yourself and keep them. Yes, continue to love and support them as long as possible but, do not allow yourself to be guilted by their tantrums. While it just might be the most difficult thing you've ever had to do, taking care of yourself FIRST is the only way to preserve both yourself and ALSO do what's best for THEM. And THAT is love.❤️" - Wesley Goo Via: @snowwolfunleashed ♡ #maturedating#emotionalmaturity#sacredunion#divinelove
Very serious about bringing the short hair back. Don’t know if the office can handle the extra sass though. *hair flip* . #throwback to when I first moved to Tucson and didn’t know who I was or should be. Honestly, still don’t know, but definitely know more than I did back then. I’m starting to order books on emotional maturity to help with this, and super excited for them to arrive! If you want to read along with me let me know and I’ll send you my current list!