A lot of cool things happened yesterday. 1. I put on regular people clothes. 2. I went somewhere other than a fitness studio, coffee shop or taco store. 3. Shalisa put on a beautiful event, in a gorgeous space with incredible babes! Thank you @shalisa_p & @badgalmimii for a F’n fantastic “Friendsgiving”! #beethankful#bumbleden Also,👉🏽swipe for what I look like at any dinner table. Give me all the Mac or Mashers!
Mike #4 is 48, wealth management and philanthropy guy, likes the opera, divorced & no kids. Mike is interesting, attractive and probably complex, but he had a huge wall up and refused to let me in. I can say this because I tried in vain for over 7 months to break in and edge a section in his life. In those 7 months, we texted and called several times a week, but only met twice. Yes, you read that correctly. TWICE. Mike is a workaholic and famous for making plans and then breaking them last minute to meet with clients. Mike would make promises of travel to make it up to me. Mike would send flowers and cards, apologize profusely...but never commit to meeting. It got to the point where my friends staged a mini intervention to open my eyes to see it. He’s toxic and manipulative and I feel a bit of shame that I fell for it. I’m a fairly intelligent and intuitive gal, but I fell for his shit hard. When I told him to leave me be, he begged to remain friends. Seriously begged, which was bizarre and uncomfortable. I talked to him for another month after the fact. We made plans to go to an outdoor concert. (wait for it...) I showed up and he didn’t. Apologies & more flowers. I’ve blocked him and refused floral deliveries. Now that he can’t have me, he wants me. 🤦🏼♀️ A few times, I’ve unblocked him to see if he still messages...and he does, so back on block. Sometimes these people enter our lives to teach us a lesson and to remind us that you can’t go through this dating bullshit w/o friends. #mike#bumble#toxicpeople#toxicrelationships#itwasntarelationship#ihavethebestfriends#datingsucks#textingbuddy#textingrelationship #🙄 #👻