💗 If you don't choose a higher vibration you will automatically attract a lover based on how you feel inside. If you feel abandonment or abandon yourself through self sabatory tactics you will attract a likewise counterpart etc. You are always manifesting either unintentionally or though focused intention - Real love is holistic. It's pure. It's unconditional which means you love another person for exactly who and what they are because you love yourself enough to let another person free to be themselves. It doesn't mean putting up with abuse or being treated badly!! It means having boundries. It means you don't blame another person when they are not meeting your standards or not there for you as you would wish. You don't expect to get love from another. You just love them anyway. Because it's a knowing that you and only you can make you ok. Love comes from self then is reflected back to us through others like a mirror. Co- dependent love is what most people experience. Relying on the relationships around you to make you feel good. Special. Loved. And when they don't live up to your needs they become the enemy. It's all their fault you feel like shit. It's not though. It's yours. They are just reflecting your missing love of Self. They are unwittingly trying to teach you something. To learn how to love yourself enough to do the inner work. So that you are grounded and stable. And nothing can bend you. Because you tend to your own needs. You love yourself. Again. This Universe is a Paradox. Outer reflects inner. Love yourself and you will not only see love come back to you through your relationships with everyone . You will also feel amazing to be free and liberated and not to be wanting of or needy of other's. Because you got you boo! #soul#soullove#selflove#selfcare#boundries#empower#empowered#witchy#consciousness#higherself#higherconsciousness#soulmate#spiritual#self#manifesting
Starting my day like 🙏 Deep breathing into my heart with fluorite. @doterra citrus bliss in my body oil and balance on the bottoms of my feet, belly button and base of spine to keep me in check. I got in a huge fight with my mom last night that had me feeling shitty. There is one thing that I know about myself without a doubt: I am one of the most giving and supportive people I know. This is not a “toot your own horn” this is simply a fact. I live my life with a deep knowing that you receive by giving and you rise by lifting others. Most of my life I have put others wants and needs above my own. So much so that it was a negative pattern in my life for years. But, after putting an end to that and learning that it’s not my job to save everyone in this world, I have been able to establish healthy boundaries. So these days, when someone is pushing up against those, I can very easily (sometimes aggressively due to my pitta nature) say “back the fuck up” So let today be a reminder that 1. People only understand from their level on consciousness and it won’t always be at yours. Keep your heart open to their perspective and rise above. 2. You can break any negative pattern in your life, you just have to choose it. 3. Speak your truth, always. And if someone doesn’t like your flavor, they can find a different kind of ice cream. ✌🏼💚🍦
Without being RAW and open with yourself, you will NEVER be able to be RAW and open with others. When we don’t allow time to practice self-care or to replenish all the energy we’ve given out we tend to end up at WAR. War with ourselves and it continues onto others. As parents, this is even more important. We must fill our own cups to be the best parents we can be. I know that can be hard to recognize... as parents it’s OKAY to be selfish-sometimes.Know your boundaries, allow yourself some slack and don’t end up at WAR. #momblog#momming#babyjlittlea#parenting#selfcare#lifelessons#boundries
Healthy boundaries protect us on every level - mental, emotional, spiritual and physical. It's important to know what our boundaries are and to make them clear to ourselves and others. They keep us healthy and free. What boundaries have you created to keep yourself healthy? #showingupforme#showingupfully#boundries#healthy2019
If you don't play by my rules, i will not marry you. If you don't give me your salary at the end if the month, then you may have to park and go so i can marry another wife. Someone actually said she was even considering anal sex so as to keep her husband with her (i laughed). he is not doing you any favour by marrying you, get it straight (you may not agree with me, that is fine). Do not present yourself as a living sacrifice. You are the one droping your father's name to pick up his. You are the one that is going to go through all that painful process to bringing forth a child that will bear his name (you are helping in producing another generation for his family). You are a good "thing" so said the bible. Treat yourself as one. Don't allow anyone make you feel inferior, don't allow anyone make you feel like an unwanted goods. Do not allow your self esteem to be toiled with. You are lovely, you are wonderfully made, you are a wonderful creature, you are more than enough for anyman. Treat him like a king and he too have to treat you like his queen else no deal. It takes two to make a relationship work. #relationship#dating#facts#love#loyalty#breakups#lovequote#marriage#boundries#relationshipmatters#relationahipadvice#relationshipquote#relationshipcoach#emotionalabuse#emotionalpain#psychologicalabuse#psychopath#sociopath#toxicrelationships#toxicpeople
Many of us will find this week’s theme to be one of reset. Old rules or standards no longer apply or heed relevance in our day to day. You may find that what once was ok is no longer. New boundaries must be formed to honor and protect your new life vision, while fearful ones that kept others away may have to be dismantled. This card also suggests that it’s time to take up space. No longer playing small or meek in the background of your life. It is highly suggested to keep integrity as your barometer this week in all of your affairs. As we approach a hearty and quite possibly dramatic Full Moon Lunar Eclipse in Leo (1/20-1/21 in some places). Use this energy to best positively channel and inspire creative leadership and expression. This energy is here for you to refuel you. Like all things that get too hot however it can burn if we misuse it. Treat and respect all beings with the same measure you would like to be treated. It only takes a moment of pause to do so. Much love to you all! May this week show you how awesome you truly are! 🐆 . . . #sacredsymbolsoracle#marcellakroll#cotd#fullmoon#eclipse#boundries
Please if some thing is boxed up with my #name on it dont touch it ive recently even gone back to a places where i had massive party's celebrating things organised people birthdays alot why ..... letting go of friends girls ones you not women. ..... if my things say me and are stored away its for personal reasons not at my HOME i had choice to bo back to a few #venues to get my final closure for my #children going through all my family things with out ME Def not OK .....Def #boundries crossed no one in their #right#mind does some of the things that have been done and said ...... we are #regrowing again this is why it is so important to me to talk about it my girlfriend Jess jane a kelly even a KB a beautiful nurse new i wasn't supposed to be where i was to she just said look you sweetie. ..oh well ya learnt more didnt ya we laughed. ..smiles here today now #tea is done #praying we rest i need a good movie or night out again hahhaha and yup #em has just dug up all our #carrots.....lol its #dirt love letting my babes get dirty i did i was in the #mud all the time then your a lil #angel for #tea life it what we all make it and im so much more beautiful than i was made to belive i feel it now thanks to my darling uncles wrk and love for #life but mostly my babies! I need to sweep my yard now ! #gardens huh love them but ill get my beautiful home most will be #pots why #sun you move them not every think #blooms in one #spot Xx
I took a tiny little break from posting because sometimes I think it’s good to just chill with social media. I had a good friend tell me that it’s “amazing for her soul” to be off social media. . When I took a 10 day social media fast a few months ago, I came back happy to be back on, but with some boundaries set for myself: . — Set amount of time to be on social media. Get in the stuff you really care about... the rest is fluff, and it can go ✌🏻 — Turn off all the notifications so I’m not notified every comment, etc. No little red bubble yelling at me to check it (all you people with little red bubbles on your screen all the time—I love you, but I don’t get you 😉) — I moved the app into another area on my phone so it’s not just easy to swipe into as a habit and it adds that extra second of thought to decide if it’s a good time for it 💭 —— I deleted all accounts that were adding nothing to my life ✌🏻 . These things helped me to spend less time scrolling, and to be selective and PURPOSEFUL with social media. It can be a fun, and a good thing if we are intentional about it. . Do you get sucked into scrolling? What boundaries do you set for yourself with social media?
Even if you are lucky enough to have the most amazing supportive people around you, YOU are the one that needs to put yourself back together. Chose to put yourself back together bigger and better than before, chose to take your life back, chose to create boundaries, chose to find who you are, chose to find what makes you happy. It’s the hardest thing ever and you have to work at it but if you do then each day you will find strength you never knew you had. You will find new things you love INCLUDING YOURSELF. Take care of yourself, take time to do what you love. If you need space, then take that time on your own. Don’t apologise for what you need to do to heal. Take it slowly, set goals no matter how small. The world is there for the taking and the only one that can hold you back is you. So believe in yourself, push yourself and tell yourself “I can do that” when the doubt in yourself creeps in remind yourself that it’s a side effect of what you have been through and push it back out of your mind because you CAN do whatever you put your mind to. 💪🏻💜😘#domesticabusesurvivor #strength#selflove#selfbelief#boundries#buddhism#yourhappinessmatters
Dare you push your boundaries and take risk to get out of comfort zone ? No : You better to take away from the edge Yes : You are welcome to unconditionally situation #comfortzone#boundries#risk#unconditional#edge @mikerosehart جراتشو داری مرزهات رو پشت سر بذاری و ریسک خروج از منطقه امن خودتو بپذیری ؟ خیر : بهتره از مرز و لبه ها فاصله بگیری بله : به دنیای عدم قطعیت خوش اومدی #عدم_قطعیت #مرز#لبه#ریسک#منطقه_امن
What an absolutely amazing weekend! I don’t think my parents could have given Jon and me a better gift... the Smart Conference was incredible - great content by even greater speakers and mentors! I would highly encourage anyone to attend this conference, no matter where you are on your financial journey! We successfully met everyone - except for @daveramsey and @georgekamel - next time!
Cheers to getting shit done. My hair is greasy, I still have a ton of work to do, but here I am hustling away anyway. Last couple of days I've been playing a lot of catch-up. part of that was at my schedule got a little derailed, part of that is that I didn't get my shit together enough. Earlier today was a perfect example of that. While it sucks to fall behind that doesn't mean you can't catch back up. Sometimes you just need a hard reset, but in this case I just needed to pony up. I took a break earlier to go on a walk and ensure I get in my steps and take a little bit more care of my mental health. But after that break it's time for me to sit back at this desk and hustle. I'm going to finish the things I set out and intended to finish today, I'm not going to let falling behind get in my way. I'm also going to enjoy this delicious old fashion @wynobsession made for me. I don't think I can express how appreciative I am of him to give me space to focus on my work and what I've decided is important to me. Little tokens like pouring me a glass of wine here are there, or making me a delicious drink with whiskey when I'm working late go a long way. He absolutely does way more than that to! #workinglate #doshit #getshitdone #messyhair #dontcare #oldfashioned#oldfasion #couplegoals #team #boundries #entrepreneurmindset #entrepreneurial #entrepreneursofinstagram #entrepreneurslife #entrepreneurialmindset #entrepreneurstyle #entrepreneurwoman #entrepreneurtips #entrepreneurship101 #entrepreneurspirit #entrepreneurgoals #entrepreneurwomen #entrepreneurtip #entrepreneurmind #entrepreneurmom #entrepreneurquote
Check out the riffs! @shutupfreemarket shredding some riffs from our new single “The Lie of Humankind!” We’re playing this on Sunday when we hang with @tltsol, @filthband, @bornanewnj, @boundariesct, and @grievancenjhc at the Bungalow Bar and Grille.
kali dark goddess. now is not the time for passivity, meekness, shrinking ourselves. divine feminine is on the rise. we are tired of being ignored, abused, treated as objects of men’s desire only. we are here as divine feminine to usher in this NEW PARADIGM this NEW EARTH. it starts with us. it starts with our NO. yes it’s hard to fight for just treatment but we have to start somewhere even if it’s in our own lives with our families and friends. we have to stand strong in our knowing we are divine and deserve to be treated as such. call on kali to have the strength the fire you need to stand up for yourself in all situations. stand up for what you deserve. have standards! don’t let any person tell you there’s something wrong with you for wanting the best treatment. every no you say and every boundary you set with people is helping this earth change. and no you can’t always do it in the nicest way, sometimes as woman we mistaken our use of power as being mean but even if we can’t come off in pure love in every situation its probably what the situation needed anyways for the person to wake up. we have to trust in the end we are changing the world. we all want to live somewhere safe free and beautiful we have to demand this. set the standard for humanity. the time is now. #kali#tara#hindu#tucson#art#spirituality#divinefeminine#standards#goddess#goddessenergy#selflove#letgo#boundries#love#newearth#healing#energy#blue#fireenergy#fierce
This picture popped up on my FB page this morning, and took me back to about 20 years ago. Looking at this picture made me reflect upon my life, and I realised that my husband Rob has been my one constant source of love and support over the years. He has at times challenged me and tested me, and I him. What we have is real love. Not bullshit over money, status and material possessions. We love each other as two peas in a pod. He is the ying to my yang. He holds me to account and I do the same to him. We rub along well as we have love, respect and boundries. We’ve learned how to forgive each other our transgression, without keeping a book of wrongs. Life has not been kind to either of us on many levels, the same for millions of others in this world, but we are still blessed beyond measure because of LOVE, humility and buckets of patience and tolerance. #lovemyhusband#mybestfriend#partnerincrime#challenger#respect#love#commitment#boundries#growingoldtogether#teamwork#protector#marraige#relationships