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SEXY SELFISH Coaching

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Empowering Mums who want to learn how to manifest WealthπŸ’° and un-fuck their finances FOR GOOD . Podcast - Ebook - Online course Facebook group ⬇️

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IMAGINE THIS ….. β¬‡οΈβ¬‡οΈβ¬‡οΈπŸ’«πŸ’«πŸ’« Money is no longer the main factor in every single decision you make. You have paid off your debt and no longer have to dread checking the letters. You just booked that family trip to Disney Land you have been dreaming about for YEARS. When bills come in the mail it doesn’t even bother you, you pay them straight away without a second thought, no stress. Your ordering lunch and can get the extra avo on the side without feeling guilty, better yet, you never have to look at the price on the menu before deciding what to eat ever again. You can buy the organic veggies and the fancy adult cheese  No more living week to week, pay check to pay check ... No more money guilt ever again !!! HOW DOES THAT FEEL FOR YOU ???? πŸ™ŒπŸΌβœ¨πŸ€©πŸ₯³ Incredible, amazing, expansive  exciting … yes ?  I know you want that feeling ….. BUT RIGHT NOW YOUR …😒😣πŸ₯΅πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜©πŸ˜¬ Sick of living pay check to paycheck. Tired of 2 steps forward 3 steps back. Unsure of your families financial future. Struggling to actually take the action that you know you need to take. Hustling WAY to hard and ending up feeling burnt out and exhausted. Feeling like you just cant see the light at then end of the tunnel and to much month at the end of they money. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € BUT YOUR READY FOR CHANGE … YOU DONT WANT TO SPEND ANOTHER YEAR LIVING THIS SAME STRUGGLE …. πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™‹πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ Your ready to rewrite your money story... Curious to see what separates the mindsets of poor people and rich people.πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ Excited to learn how to attract money with ease.πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ Take your manifesting and your money mindset to the next LEVEL and start living the life you have always dreamed of.πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ CLICK THE LINK IN MY BIO TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT MY 6 WEEK MONEY  MINDSET PROGRAM JUST FOR MUMS !!! πŸ’°β¬‡οΈπŸ’°β¬‡οΈπŸ’°β¬‡οΈ Www.sexyselfish.com/courses/
Every single experience in life teaches us a lesson, creates the next level of us ... So in those moments it seems like the world is stacked against you ... Look for the lessons βœ¨πŸ™πŸΌπŸ’›
No baby is born  being able to talk straight away πŸ‘ΆπŸΌπŸ€£ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € no baby popped out of mum and goes “ hi mum and dad, bit chilly out here, any chance I could grab some milk and another blanket” πŸ€£πŸ™…πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ‘ΆπŸΌπŸ™Š It just doesn’t happen right ….. First we have to learn  sounds, a few words, sentences our ABC and then bibbidy bop pity  boop …. suddenly we are all grown up rapping  to “superbase” and  typing papers 25 pages long πŸ‘πŸΌ No baby  tried to say dad, but ended up saying BAB and then just gave up  As babies, we try and try and try again, we learn the foundations then we build on them and we learn more and more until suddenly we can talk, we can communicate, we can write and read etc etc  When a baby cant talk yet, the parents encourage them every day, when they get a word wrong they arn’t scolded, instead its adorable … and they are supported to keep trying . πŸ§πŸ€” Yet … when it comes to money  We often make one bad decision and decide we are just awful with money 🀷🏼‍β™€οΈπŸ’°πŸ’΅πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ sometimes people even reaffirm this belief by telling us “ your so impulsive, your so broke, you dont really make good choices with your money”  But thats just not true, we arn’t bad with money ….. like  baby learning to speak , we just haven’t learnt enough about money yet to be successful  The key is to not give up … You just haven’t learnt your foundation yet, you haven’t built on your skills and chances are you don’t have anyone supporting you on this journey either.🀷🏼‍♀️ Thats why I created money for mummy and that’s why you and I are going on this journey TOGETHER ...πŸ™ŒπŸΌβ¬‡οΈ LINK IN BIO - TO FIND OUT MORE ABOUT MY 6 WEEK PROGRAM βœ¨πŸ’°βœ¨πŸ’°βœ¨πŸ’° Www.sexyselfish.com/courses/
- IM NOT GOOD WITH MONEY - 🀷🏼‍β™€οΈπŸ€·πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ€·πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ€·πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ’°πŸ’°πŸ’°πŸ’° How many times have you heard a friend or family member say this ?  How many times have YOU said it ?  Too many to count? … dont worry your not alone, I use to  say this phrase at least once or twice a day  now I know better, but back in the day, this sentence was on serious repeat  If you ask me …. this is hands down one of the most damaging phrases in a woman brain, second only to “I cant afford that”❌❌❌ Because when you think and when you say “ I’m not good with money”  you straight away, take yourself out of the game πŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ Even I have made bad decisions with money …. When I was 18 i saved 15k in my first 6 months working full time …. which I then promptly blew on a sporty new car that I thought would make people take me more seriously in the coorporate world I was trying to climb up in.  the high of driving my new car lasted about 2 days 🚘 then there was insurance $900  registration $800  and repairing the timing belt $1200  I went from having  a pretty 15k sitting in the bank to being totally in the red, bank at 0 …. credit card maxed  cue anxiety vomiting … I was young and stupid and like a magpie I got distracted by shiny things … I made  financial choices  based on image and impulse 🀩🀩🀩 I learnt the lesson fast  but I also started to say and belief “I’m bad with money”  i repeated this belief for YEARS  When the truth was i wasn’t bad with money …. I just made one bad choice … that I eventually learnt from  I had a lot more lessons to learn with that car too, It ended up costing me a fortune and  nearly killed me  But thats another story …. The point was … I could have just given up and decided that “ I’m bad with money” I could have repeated that cycle of bad decisions for the next 80 years of my life, i could have surrender to financial dis-empowerment ….but
πŸ“•πŸ“—πŸ“˜πŸ“™ Anyone who knows me well will know I’m a major book nerd ... I read about 4-6 books a month and listen to at least 1 book on audio as well ... πŸ“š books for me are the ultimate magic,  books are bigger on the inside and can transport you to an entire different time and place ... πŸ“š  My favourite 3 books - 4 nights with the duke, πŸ”₯ - happy potter series ⚑️ -  the richest man in Babylon ... These three, I’ve read over and over and over again ... πŸ“’πŸ““πŸ“” What’s  the one book you can read over and over again without getting tired of it ??? ⬇️⬇️⬇️
β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € How many times have you thought to yourself ...🀷🏼‍♀️ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € πŸ’°Money is the root of all evil πŸ’΅Money doesn't grow on trees πŸ’°Rich people are bad parents πŸ’΅Success never lasts πŸ’°I am bad with money πŸ’΅ We will never get in front πŸ’° Making lots of money takes time and energy I don't have πŸ’΅ I don't deserve to have lots of money πŸ’° I have Money issues that are stopping me from being successful ... β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € I bet at least one, if not more, of those thoughts, popped into your head today ... Well, I'm calling NOT TRUE on all of it πŸ™…πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™…πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ You see, You've been TAUGHT your "money story" starting as early as when you were just a child, yep a teeny tiny baby watching mummy and daddy fight over bills .. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € The great thing about this is ... If you can acknowledge your money story than you can rewrite your money story. Not just for you, but for your family tooπŸ™πŸΌ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Because Money is just Energy, its an energetic exchange,  neither good or bad once you can learn to detach emotionally to the money you can instead start to actually manifest more of it into your life. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € The amount of money you bring into your life and keep is just a reflection of your personal belief system around money and what you're an energetic match too. Sounds a bit hippy right?πŸ’«βœ¨ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Trust me, I thought the same, but once I dived into Money Mindset work my life, my business and my attitude towards money COMPLETELY changed β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € And so can yours ... β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € and  TBH "Manifesting abundance" is more action and intentions than chanting naked on a mountaintop in the moonlight β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € 6 months ago I had $300 to my name, a mountain of credit card debt, car loans and even though I
🀷🏼‍β™€οΈπŸ€·πŸΌ‍♀️Why do some Women seem to always be carefree and abundant , while their peers are left thinking “how the hell do i pay the rent this month” …? 🀷🏼‍β™€οΈπŸ€·πŸΌ‍♀️ ...And somehow they do it without being illegal … well i hope πŸ™Š  We've all been there.  I used to think that abundance, wealth and success was only for magical unicorn mums who had it “all figured out” πŸ’°πŸ¦„βœˆοΈπŸ’΅ I truly thought opportunities and money was handed out to those special few women with magical super powers or just  lucky. πŸ’«  But that’s just not the case! At all.πŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ (I'm going to show you how to Invite abundance and success into YOUR life  in a free workshop.  Before we continue, let me introduce myself!  I’m Shona !πŸ™‹ I'm a coach, mentor and all round self proclaimed badass who helps mums who want MORE  And while I don’t have any “expert” credentials (I didn’t graduate from uni with a business degree, or even coaching school for that matter and I have no PR training) I’ve managed to turn my life around from only $300 in my bank account, trying to figure out how to make brown rice interesting for dinner 6 nights a week … to now running 2 successful companies, choosing the fanciest restraints in town and driving my dream car. πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ’΅βœˆοΈπŸ’«πŸ¦„πŸ‘ΈπŸ» Now, I help people  just like you  to remember how incredible you actually are and to help you totally transform that money mindset and the way you spend, save, earn and attract πŸ’° MONEY  If you're looking to  get rid of money guilt and financial worry for GOOD , click "Learn More" to sign up for my FREE workshop In this exclusive workshop you’ll learn: βœ… The 3 major roadblocks between you and Financial abundance βœ… How to leverage your mindset to manifest money FAST βœ… Why Mindset work is  the most important thing you can do to create financial security for your family βœ… The exact strategy I used to manifest
IMAGINE THIS ….. Money is no longer the main factor in every single decision you make.πŸ’° You have paid off your debt and no longer have to dread checking the letters.πŸ’Œ You just booked that family trip to Disney Land you have been dreaming about for YEARS.✈️ When bills come in the mail it doesn’t even bother you, you pay them straight away without a second thought, no stress.πŸ’΅ Your ordering lunch and can get the extra avo on the side without feeling guilty, better yet, you never have to look at the price on the menu before deciding what to eat ever againπŸ₯‘πŸ₯‘πŸ₯‘. You can buy the organic veggies and the fancy adult cheese instead of sticking to the home brand section in coles.πŸ§€ No more living week to week, pay check to pay check ... No more money guilt ever again !!!πŸ™…πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™…πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ HOW DOES THAT FEEL FOR YOU ???? 🀷🏼‍♀️ Incredible, amazing, expansive  exciting … yes ? πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ I know you want that feeling ….. BUT RIGHT NOW YOUR …  Sick of living pay check to paycheck.❌ Tired of 2 steps forward 3 steps back.❌ Unsure of your families financial future.❌ Struggling to actually take the action that you know you need to take.❌ Hustling WAY to hard and ending up feeling burnt out and exhausted.❌ Feeling like you just cant see the light at then end of the tunnel and to much month at the end of they money.❌ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € BUT YOUR READY FOR CHANGE … YOU DONT WANT TO SPEND ANOTHER YEAR LIVING THIS SAME STRUGGLE …. πŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ™‹πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™‹πŸΌ‍β™€οΈπŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ Your ready to rewrite your money story...πŸ‘πŸΌ Curious to see what separates the mindsets of poor people and rich people.πŸ‘πŸΌ Excited to learn how to attract money with ease.πŸ‘πŸΌ Take your manifesting and your money mindset to the next LEVEL and start living the life you have always dreamed of.πŸ‘πŸΌ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Well
πŸ™πŸΌ HOW TO GET OVER FEELING YUCK ABOUT MAKING MONEY πŸ™πŸΌ Ever heard the phrase “money is the root of all evil” πŸ’°  of course you have, everyone has  somehow that one little phrase has so many people all over the world totally blocked  frustrated and stuckπŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ it has incredible women undervaluing themselves it has Mums feeling guilty for going to work  it has  total boss babes hiding their ambition, scared of judgment  BUT …. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € I 100% Know that you can be a total Rich babe and Spiritual AF at the same time βœ¨β€¨ I know that kind of a strange concept  to wrap your head around because pretty much everything in the world will try to tell you otherwise. However … πŸ’« Being wealthy doesn’t make you “less spiritual”  Being “broke”  doesn’t make you more “woke”  Struggling doesn’t make you more pure or worthy or morally right  Because… Despite what they may have told you …. Money is not Evil πŸ’΅βœ¨πŸ’°πŸ’« Having money doesn’t make you a bad person  In fact I 100% believe having money  helps you become a better personal all round  because it gives you opportunity … it gives you choice β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € CONTINUED IN FULL ⬇️ POST IN FB GROUP πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ LINK IN BIO TO JOIN  SEXY SELFISH ✨
Want to experience more Abundance in your life? πŸ™ŠπŸ’΅πŸ™ŠπŸ’΅ The doors to my Money for Mummy Program  are CLOSING in just a couple of days. What that means is that the opportunity to learn EXACTLY HOW to manifest more money in your life will go POOF soon.  Don’t miss out on this special opportunity!πŸ’° •Are you stuck in inaction? Paralyzed by fear? Overwhelmed by bills and money guilt ?
•Giving up on the idea that your financial situation will ever get better •Need someone to make things simple? To show you the way? To prove to you that, YES, you can do it too?
•Feeling frustrated from a lack of results in your life? •Is fear sitting in the driver's seat of your life?
•Sick of re-living the same broke, barely scraping by year over and over again? •QUEEN of self-sabotage?
•Ready to make Abundance second-nature and finally get your big break?πŸ™ŒπŸΌ I made the  Money for Mummy program …  for YOU.πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ In this course I’ve taken ALL the jargon, complexity, and overwhelm OUT of the Abundance process and only give you exactly what you NEED in order to make this work FOR YOU.  The Money for Mummy Program  will take you right out of sitting in limbo and put you into taking the RIGHT ACTION so that you finally see results like never before.  BUT… in order to get all the benefits of the challenge , you need to hit that enrollment button RIGHT NOW. The clock is ticking!  If you’re ready to stop delaying your happiness , get inside me so we can celebrate you, and get this manifestation party STARTED.  6 weeks to a brand new you?
6 weeks to a brand new life?
6 weeks to a completely transformed reality?
6 weeks to a mindset that works FOR YOU rather than against you?
6 weeks to letting go of self-sabotage for good?
6 weeks to the most successful version of you?
6 weeks to abundance like you’ve never experienced before?
6 weeks to letting it be EASY and allowing your desires to flow into your life quickly and
Do you ever remember being 7, playing “grown up” and pretending to be terrified of opening your electricity bill ? πŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️Me neither ... πŸ‘πŸΌπŸ’°πŸ’΅βœ¨ Ready to seriously up-level your money mindset and work through your Money shit ... Join the FREE workshop HERE... β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € http://www.sexyselfish.com/3-money-secrets-2/
Why do we still swallow our rage down ?  That rage you feel bubbling underneath your skin ... it’s ok to feel that  You are allowed to get angry  You are allowed to disagree with things  You are allowed to speak up for injustice  The age of biddable quiet small women is over πŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ no more ... you are allowed to be angry  feel that rage and let it fuel you to create a different reality for our daughter  Do not let people shame you or your anger, do not let them label you bitch, aggressive, psycho ... when you fully express your range of human emotions  You do not have to stay small and quiet and neutral just to keep them comfortable .... you are allowed to feel rage πŸ™ŒπŸΌ
- STOP WAITING FOR SOMEONE  TO SAVE YOU - πŸ’«βœ¨πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € So I spend a lot of time with my one on one clients trying to get them to grow the fuck up …. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Really, β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € That sounds awful … but sometimes I’m dealing with clients who behave like toddlers waiting for mummy to make dinner β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € You see … heres the thing β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € NO ONE IS COMING TO SAVE YOU❌ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Shocking right … β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Understand this … β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € NOBODY  thinks they are playing the damsel in distress when I first start working with them …. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € No body wants to admit that they are playing small β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € No one wants to acknowledge they are in victim mode when they really want to be in badass mode β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € BUT …. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € The deeper we diver, the more questions we ask,  the more massive AH-HA moments they have. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € The more they recognise that on some level they are stuck in the place they currently are because they are waiting for mummy, daddy, hubby, government, universe to come on in, sweep them up and take care of all their problems. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € We are all secretly craving someone to come and tuck us in at night and make all the scary real life things go away. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Thats why so many people fantasise about winning the lottery β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Thats why we read romance novels and binge watch the kardashians β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Thats why so many women get stuck and can never make more money than their parents made as a self sabotage cycle of independence β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Thats why so many people EXPECT the government to take care of them … β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € That why so many women  love 50 shades of grey ( apart
3 things you should know about me if we are going to be BFFS  1️⃣ I  am a major doctor who fan and can spend hours discussing the theories of time and space  2️⃣ I played violin for 13 years and could have gone pro, but I met my husband and I just wanted to settle down and have his babies  3️⃣ I cant be around the water, ocean, river, pool without getting in it ... at least my toes, even fit freezing water ... it calls to the deepest part of my soul 🧜🏻‍♀️ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Think I’m a freak yet 🀣🀣 join the club β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Seriously ... come join our club β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Comment bellow 3 things I should know about you ... and then click the link in my bio to join our FB group/ girl gang β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € All for mums who want to manifest more $$$ and get rid of money guilt for good πŸ™ŒπŸΌπŸ’΅πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Let’s hang out X Shona
EMPOWERMENT has def been the buzz word for 2018 ... but what does it really mean to you ? 🀷🏼‍♀️ β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € For me, and many others β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € Empowerment comes from responsibility β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € So when you take responsibility for your situation, financial or other wise, only then are you empowered to actually do something about it. β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € You have to take 100% responsibility for you life, β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € You CANNOT, β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € I repeat CANNOT be fully empowered, without being fully responsible β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € So where in life are you hiding ? Where are you playing small ? Where are you stuck in victim hood ? Where are you waiting to be saved ? β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β € 2019 ... this is the year we step up, get honest and take responsibility for our future πŸ™ŒπŸΌ
πŸ’°πŸ’΅πŸ™ŒπŸΌ STOP COCK BLOCKING YOUR ABUNDANCE πŸ“πŸ†˜βŒπŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ Like seriously stop babe,  Right now I KNOW your trying to manifest more money into your life, your even saying all the right affirmations ( like this one )  And your doing everything right .... but it’s still just not happening ?  It might be because your sending confused AF signals to the universe ... so how do you clear up those signals ???? ⬇️ check out my NEW  post in the SEXY SELFISH fb group where I break it down for you πŸ”Ό Link in bio to join πŸ™‹πŸΌ‍♀️
It’s mum life Monday ... I really want to go live with you guys, I have so much to share, there’s so much I want to help you with  I’m busting at the seams with all this knowledge I want to share with you all  But today is Monday  And today I need to give this tiny amazing human ALL of me  She needs it  I need it  And as much as I’m busting to help YOU  I need to remember to help HER first  My baby girl  My 4 year old little diva  Today I’m hers ... tomorrow I’m yours πŸ’› join me LIVE aim the FB group tomorrow morning to chat all about Mindset blocks holding you back from manifesting serious Wealth πŸ™ŒπŸΌ πŸ”Ό Link in Bio to join πŸ”Ό
πŸ’°- STOP HIDING FROM MONEY - πŸ’°  The fact is if your trying to manifest more money but your fucking terrified of money ... you’ll never get anywhere πŸ™…πŸΌ‍♀️ If your saying to the universe “ I am abundant and money flows to me”  But your hiding from your bills and patting your electricity after the due date ... things are never going to change πŸ‘ŽπŸ½ The point is you have to believe it first ... you have to step into that high vibe version of you FIRST  If you keep waiting  for the universe to show up and your not taking the inspired action to meet it half way  you’ll get NO WHERE ... You have to show up first …. 🀞🏻 its just like the saying “build it and it will come”  but really its about “feeling it …. and the abundance will come”  so for example …. if your waking up every single morning and your saying “money loves me, money flows to me effortlessly”  but you never check you bank account intact your terrified to log on to your netbank and see that credit card debt, or that savings account with $2.75 …  your confusing the Fuck out of the universe πŸ™…πŸ½‍♀️ on one hand your trying to convince your self you love money and you want to attract more, but on the other hand your ignoring, hiding and terrified of money … πŸ’°πŸ’°πŸ’° your making money into the fuck boy you know you shouldn’t reply to when he text you at 2am  so of course money doesn’t want to be around you  You gotta walk the walk … not just talk the walk  So if your trying to manifest large amounts of badass money …. stop hiding from money πŸ™ŒπŸΌ One of the easiest thing you can do to start matching your walk with your talk is to build your confidence bit by bit and get more comfortable with money, strengthen your relation ship with money, begin to act AS IF .. check your accounts every day  check in with your money, even if your in a positive or a negative net worth situation πŸ’°βœ¨πŸ’ΈπŸ’΅ you gotta check in, you gotta get

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